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Female Submissive, 39, Bakersfield, California
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Male Submissive, 25, Los Angeles, California
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Male Submissive, 19, San Marcos, California
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About calisurfingman
Contact:
YAHOO/KIK: calisurfingman
EMAIL: calisurfingman@yahoo.com
Vanilla Side
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One of my favorite quotes:
“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.”
I am an independent, strong, confident, sensual, dominant gentleman. I am busy being a nurse, student, soccer mom raising my teenage nephew, and volunteer due to my ambitious yet laid back nature. I chose to stay busy because I enjoy the sensation of accomplishment and moving my life forward towards set goals.
I am a romantic, a hard-core day dreamer, and believer in chivalry of days gone by. I am not big into games or drama and believe family is the top priority of life. My free time is spent by the lake jogging, playing with my three dogs, bonding with my nephew over games & netflix, traveling, getting lost on random road trips, and enjoying simple coffee shop conversations. I run 5K-10K daily and prefer to spend my time with someone I can share some type of physical activity with let it be something as simple as walking the lake during a sunset.
My bucket list is longer than I care to count and I am looking for someone who will be a partner in crime wanting to check each item off one activity at a time. The biggest item is a desire to travel and explore this world of ours. Life is short. Do your best to embrace each moment the day has to offer.
Kink Side:
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I am an independent, strong, confident, sensual, dominant gentleman. My interest lies in the relationship dynamics between a Dom and his sub as well as the exchange of power. The submission, the presentation of a subs mind, body, and soul to a Dom is a gift. This gift is to be cherished, loved, protected, and nurtured at all times never to be neglected or taken advantage of.
I am a knight in shining armor and my sub is my lady. It is my role to take her under my wing and look out for her, protect her, care for her, swoon her over and, when needed provide discipline, punishment, and guidance as needed. I will be, and am, a king so I know what it is I want, what it is I need, and I am not afraid to demand it at any and all times. At the same time my lady is a queen. She has strength within herself and has her own needs and voice to let them known as well.
If my sub is to stumble and fall I am there to pick her up, comfort her, and let her know it will be alright.
I long for relationships of the 50's. Most view them as sexist with more power belonging to one individual; the man. In truth, both were partners with defined roles and were equal. Both made the relationship work and function by working together as a team in their set roles.
It is an equal exchange of power and attention within one another. It is being able to put faith, trust, respect, and love within the other person. Anyone can make another person submit through physical power but it is something else to make them submit to you openly and willingly out of choice. |
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