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Male Dominant, 60, Oxford, Pennsylvania
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Dominant Couple, 24, Modesto, California
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Male Dominant, 55, Central Valley, California
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About califhereiam
I treasure the balance -- the yin and the yang -- that BDSM brings, and how it can be a focusing, energizing, life-enhancing experience for both people.
While I am dominant, I enjoy strong woman -- physically and mentally. I would look for the same characteristics in a BDSM relationship as in a vanilla one -- shared values, lots of laughter and the desire on both our parts to help the other become the best version of themselves.
I am a busy and successful self-employed professional with many interests outside of BDSM. I do a lot of charity and volunteer work; love going to book clubs and other social gatherings; and explore Los Angeles.
I am very health conscious. While I don't mind some self-indulgence, my diet tends to be very healthy. I exercise five days a week -- weights, cardio, yoga, and pilates. I have a slender, toned, and strong physique.
I am a big reader, and have relentless curiosity about the world.
My position on BDSM is its a dance. The dom is the leader, and it's his job to guide his partner firmly and with loving grace. A woman's body is like a violin and it must be skillfully played.
I am not online much, and I don't really want to be. I understand the need some people have for discretion. BDSM is a private part of my life. That said, I am not interested in a long online courtship. After exchanging a couple of emails, I would want to exchange photos -- G-rated, of both our bodies and faces. At that point, I would want to talk on the phone and then meet in a public place. If you are the sort who needs to email back and forth for months to be comfortable with someone, I am not a good match. And if you are just looking for cyber-sex, go ahead and start without me :)
Good luck to all in finding what you seek. If anything I said intrigues you, please drop me a note. |
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