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Male Dominant, 25
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Male Submissive, 46, T.A.
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Male Submissive, 20, London
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About Calculation
Deliberate. Calculated. Precise.
Firmly believes that one must respect before he can rightfully disrespect.
Oh, and I tend to yank hair in public. FYI.
INTO:
Intelligence, mutual respect, tact, respecting people's people, witty banter, logic, sarcasm, open-mindedness, honesty, rationality, cussing, proper grammar, geeks, fashion, art, music, scotch, Scrabble, tattoos, piercings, Android, self-expression, impulse, enthusiasm, confidence, and stimulating conversation.
NOT INTO:
Jealousy, assumption, ignorance, misogyny, megalomania, undermining, bullshit, the opposite of everything listed above, men who exploit the term "Dom" to justify being an *actual* asshole, and vanishing acts.
THE COMPREHENSIVE LIST OF KINKS:
age play (everything to do with it) ? anal (giving) ? bare bottom spanking (giving) ? bare handed spanking (giving) ? begging (receiving) ? behavior modification (giving) ? bite marks (giving) ? biting (giving) ? blow jobs (receiving) ? bondage (giving) ? bruises (giving) ? choking (giving) ? clit spanking (giving) ? cock worship (receiving) ? consensual nonconsent (giving) ? cum in mouth (giving) ? cum on tits (giving) ? cunnilingus (giving) ? d/s (everything to do with it) ? daddy/girl (everything to do with it) ? deep throating (giving) ? dirty text messages (everything to do with it) ? discipline (giving) ? domination (giving) ? erotic photography (everything to do with it) ? exhibitionism (everything to do with it) ? face fucking (giving) ? face slapping (giving) ? facials (giving) ? gagging/choked by cock (giving) ? group sex (everything to do with it) ? hair pulling (giving) ? handjobs (receiving) ? head against wall face fucking (giving) ? intelligence (everything to do with it) ? intelligent conversation, laced with wit, subtlety, humor and mutual satisfaction (everything to do with it) ? leaving marks (giving) ? making home movies (everything to do with it) ? masturbation (everything to do with it) ? morning sex (everything to do with it) ? multiple orgasms (giving) ? mutual masturbation (everything to do with it) ? necks (everything to do with it) ? nipple piercings (watching others wear) ? oral sex (everything to do with it) ? orgy (everything to do with it) ? pain (giving) ? piercings (watching others wear) ? play rape (giving) ? polyamory (everything to do with it) ? praise while gagging/choking on cock (giving) ? public displays of sexual groping and molestation (everything to do with it) ? restraints (giving) ? rimming (giving) ? rope bondage/suspension (giving) ? rough sex (everything to do with it) ? sadism (giving) ? sending and recieving dirty text messages while working (everything to do with it) ? service-oriented submission (receiving) ? sex in public (everything to do with it) ? sexting (everything to do with it) ? spanking (giving) ? squirting (everything to do with it) ? submission (receiving) ? talking dirty (everything to do with it) ? threesomes (everything to do with it) ? throat grabbing (giving) ? tit fucking (giving) ? toys (everything to do with it) ? voyeurism (everything to do with it) ? younger women (everything to do with it).
Lastly: I am polyamorous, though I am not currently involved in (nor am I presently interested in) a primary relationship. "Openly non-monogamous" is perhaps the best way to classify my lifestyle at the moment. I'm really not much a fan of classification, though. |
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It amazes and confounds me how widely accepted is this notion of "relocation," as if a legitimate and vitally fundamental aspect of BDSM and power exchange. "Relocation" is a monumentally preposterous crock of shit, and it has absolutely no place whatsoever in the BDSM culture. |
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Just as I had suspected--this place is inanely fucking childish. |
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