Calandra


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	About Calandra Hello, I am a 46 yr. old Female Dominant from Athens Georgia. I strive to live the D/s lifestyle with honor and integrity. At this time I am considering accepting service again. The successful applicant(s) will be enthusiastic, sincere, and self-sufficient. They should possess self-control and self-discipline, since these are qualities they cannot relinquish to Me if they do not already have them. They should be capable of supporting themselves, and willing to do so, since I am not seeking a live-in. This person should expect to become My companion in vanilla areas as well as lifestyle ones. I want someone I can spend enjoyable time with, attending a movie or perhaps a symphony, attending a weekend festival or walking the local flea market. I am not seeking someone with a deep wallet, however I do enjoy being a priority with small tokens of affection (A hand-picked bouquet of flowers from the side of a country road carries way more weight than hot-house roses sometimes). The gifts of your time, attention, trust and vulnerability are paramount. You will notice that I do not list expectations like age, body-type, experience level, fetishes, etc. I do not use those criteria to select the person who serves Me. I seek the service of an adult emotionally, mentally and chronologically. With love in the lifestyle, LadyCalandra

Whew! Okay the move is done and Sunnie is left to do a massive amount of unpacking. Of course I will help, but now that the stuff is safely moved, time is on my side.

I might actually be able to get caught up on my correspondence...

My mom's husband, Sunnie, and I have been going through mom's household in an attempt to make sure family members have mementos, to assure that I, as the oldest child/only daughter got everything mom wanted me to have, and lastly to minimize Sunnies' belongings so that s/he could move into a smaller place.

Sunnie is a transgendered M to F (we affectionately caller her mom's "shusband"), so the grieving process has been so difficult for her. My mom was one of the only people in Sunnie's life who ever took time to look deeper into Sunnie and see something worth loving. Since she passed away, Sunnie has been inconsolable. Of course I am trying to be there for her during this awful time.

This has been both a heavy burden and a great honor for me, because I feel that to be there for Sunnie is to respect my mother as well as to care for someone who helped take care of my mom the last few years without reservation.

Today, finally, everything fell into place, and we started moving Sunnie into a new apartment about 15 minutes away from my home. She was originally almost an hour away. The next few days will be very hard physically for me, since I am disabled, but I am filled with pride for her courage in the face of all of these changes.

Just wanted to let everyone know why I'm not keeping in touch when they send a message. I will answer all my mail as soon as I can.

This month, my family suffered a tragic loss. My mother passed away on September 9th. I am trying to maintain contact with friends (here and elsewhere), but I have many responsibilities and I am in the middle of the grieving process myself. Please bear with me as I figure all of this out.

Thank you.

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Calandra

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