cadillacman

Sensual and adventurous I have reached a stage in my life where I have become more comfortable with myself and my sexuality, and a clearer notion of what I want and don't want in and out of bed.

Soulful and loving I have looked at life as a journey in learning and I have dug deep and soared high because of my insistence in understanding and learning from life, love. tragedy and loss.

All that said, while I consider myself very open and respectful of people's preferences, I would prefer to explore sexual adventures and sensual pleasures with a constant partner, someone who would be around to bask in an after glow or laugh with, when the exploration didn't quite work out right.

Easy to describe, difficult to find! In the meantime, there is fun to be had while on a search, but I am extremely fussy, very particular, must be willing to try anything at least once.

My Ideal Person:
Humorous, intelligent, adventurous, fun. sensual ... yet knows how to spell the word r-e-s-p-e-c-t, oh and definitely a little on the kinky side.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes.

I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have been with. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.