I am poly, and in a long term open marriage. My preferred poly configuration is that of a "V". I am laid back, easy going and have a delightfully sadistic side. My interests include, but are not limited to, art, literature, alternative lifestyles, most aspects of bdsm, leather, music, business, good food and travel.

My nature is to be sensual, open minded, respectful, and dominant with an appreciation for honesty, honor and loyalty. I value intelligence,independence, and responsible people. I am very particular and have no patience for games or drama. I appreciate quality rather than quantity in all things especially people. I am truly a Sapiosexual and a realist at heart.

Also, let me be clear. I'm a bit older and I'm experienced, but I'm not an "Uber Dom", and I have no illusions of grandeur. You will find me quite down to earth and easy to get along with. I also require no auspicious titles to define who or what I am. WYSIWYG. You may not like my opinion or what I have to say at times, but you will get the truth as I see it from my experience.

Also, I don't post full face photos on sites for the sake of privacy. If you have an interest in corresponding and want a photo then just ask for one.

If you are submissive woman who is responsible, owns her submission, has both feet on the ground, lives on this planet and not in cyberspace (or la la land), are practical, poly, reality based, and have your baggage and psyche under control I'd love to hear from you. Until then, all good things to you.

Know no limits.

"Your true self can be known only by systematic experimentation, and controlled only by being known"
Francis Bacon

"People who can't control themselves control the people around them. When you rely on someone for a positive reflected sense of self, you invariably try to control him or her."