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Transgender Submissive, 55, HeberSpring, Arkansas
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About Brian20
I am searching for a long term relationship with the right lady. I am naturally submissive and would like to have a Dominant/submissive (D/s) type relationship with a few twists. Some dominant ladies may see this request as me being confused about a D/s relationship, and they may well be correct. I do not claim to understand these things; I just know what I hope to achieve in a relationship, and I think it has a flavor of a D/s relationship. So, I am posting on this site hoping a lady will find what I am sharing as intriguing and would like to learn more.
I am open to an age range of roughly 25 to 60. Maturity in knowing who you are and what you want in life is more important to me versus age. I place maturity and intellect above physical beauty, but I would like to find her attractive. I am based in the United States in Texas, but I am open to meeting a lady from anywhere in the US, or the world. I am completely open to relocating within the US or abroad.
I do not see my life as being locked up in chains and daylong sessions every day. I want a long term, lasting relationship so I understand that a type of normalcy needs to settle in to day to day life. I have always been a hard worker and detail oriented, without being compulsive about it, so I am actually happy to take on all chores around the house. I recognize you will have preferences as to how certain tasks are to be performed, and I will of course learn from you and follow your wishes/directives accordingly. My career is fairly demanding of my time so I have always used landscape and cleaning services, but even in these cases I can manage the services and stay at the house when needed to supervise their work.
I seek a relationship where I live in the same house with you. While you have the most desirable bedroom in the house, I can occupy the least desirable bedroom. I recognize there will be times where you want the privacy of the house to yourself so I will be restricted to my room. There are door locks these days that can be controlled from a smartphone, which can allow you to ensure that you have me locked in my room when you do need time to yourself in the house. I can even install a security system with a camera in my room, which will allow you to text me before arriving home directing me to go to my room. When you see on your phone that I am in my room then you can lock my bedroom door from your phone and be ensured you have the house to yourself before you even walk in the door. Obviously I would go stir crazy if locked in the room repeatedly for hours upon hours, so we need to talk through real life balances. Maybe balance is the wrong word as the scales will always be tipped to your preferences in life so it is more about making sure my basic emotional, health and overall well-being is taken care of so that I am well positioned to serve you. I am in my early 50s, in great health and expect to be able to be a good servant for the next 40+ years. My family has a long history of being healthy and active into our old age.
If having a man living in your house seems unusual to neighbors and people you know then please consider the following options. You can share with neighbors, friends, etc. that I am paid staff; a type of live in butler/personal assistant. I have a job so I may be in the office, traveling, or working from my room most of the time. If I am home, and one of your friends asks about me we can share with them that I moonlight as a butler/personal assistant for the additional income (of course you are not paying me). I can play the role very well, and as your paid staff (in their mind anyway), it will not seem unusual if you asked me to do you a favor in front of them before I return to my room, run an errand, etc. I don’t really care what they think about me so my actions will be to make you feel and look good in front of others (I want you to be pleased with my service). Another option is to share with others that I rent a room from you. Maybe some of your friends will know that I am actually your submissive servant, which is obviously your decision as to what you share with others.
My goal will be to become indispensable to you to the point you cannot imagine your life without me. I am a submissive, and always will be, so I will recognize my role within your life and will look to you as my superior. I just need you to appreciate my submission and service, and to take the time to mold me into the ideal servant for your needs. Your happiness will be my happiness.
There are other topics we obviously need to discuss, but I think I have shared quite a bit in this introduction. Two topics worth a brief mention are financials and intimacy (we can go into more depth if you are interested). As for financials, I am secure financially and will be throughout my life. I am not rich by many standards, but I will be doing okay when I reach an age that makes since to retire so I will always be able to contribute to the overall finances. As for intimacy I have needs like any man, but I recognize that as a submissive I will not be allowed the same privileges as others. Based on your age and interests we can be creative to make sure a proper balance can be met.
If you find what I have described as something you would seriously consider committing to long-term then please send me an email and let’s explore the possibilities. Please take some time in your email to let me know you are serious. I will answer your questions and we can discuss next steps. Also, I can share a picture via email (brian20@mail.com). |
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