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bookofthedoomed

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I'm an aging punk rocker pretending to be a normal middle-class person. It's going OK, so far they don't seem to have caught on.

The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. My life is about art, music, knowledge, friends, and adventures. I like nerdy stuff, I work with computers and read comics and play board games. I make music, mostly rock music, but I have a cabaret side. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences. I typically maintain an even keel. I don't take myself very seriously. I don't take people who take themselves very seriously very seriously. I like things that are dark. I like things that are dark and funny even better. I'm looking for play/dating, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.