"A mediocre Master tells, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains ...?but a true Master inspires"

Hello, my name is David, and I am an aspiring "Man of Steel and Velvet" in a life long quest for personal growth, living the adventure of life ? with a twist of eroticism ? and that of finding a special woman who makes shared joys just that much sweeter. I believe that one of the most important things in life is your relationship with such a remarkable woman ? and that is what I am here searching for. So, If you don't like to hold hands, know that you are loved and cared about, or spoon and cuddle in the vanilla world, then I am definitely not the guy for you because in our private lives ? it only becomes more intense and demanding as we journey on our adventure together in the D/s BDSM lifestyle. ? To all that have known me, I am fair and well ? very affectionate (did I say very, I meant to say VERY affectionate). If it bugs you to have your arched body yield to me, to deliciously melt and quiver as I stealthly come up behind you ? nuzzling and bitting your neck, if you don't like to be seductively teased and searched passionately while pinned up against a cold wall ? to have your hair temptingly stroked and pulled while being disciplined or restrained, or if you just can't stand truly intimate conversation with an uncommonly deeply sensual, slightly twisted and passionate man ? well, best of luck to you in your search ... ? For as I said, I am definitely not the guy for you ? because once earned ? somewhere between your sighs and moans ... in that precious moment where your dreams meet reality, where the faint glimmer of fantasy touches the out stretched hand of your yearnings, you will find yourself being encircled ? like the prey of an animal ? waiting ?

"When you come to the edge of all that you know, you must believe one of two things: there will be earth upon which to stand, or you will be given wings to fly"
Vanilla (see below for D/s) So, shall I tell you a little more about myself? Well, I am a happy, well-educated, hardworking, financially secure, and ... an ambitious guy, who is cheerfully optimistic about life. People say that I have a generous soul, am reliable, and a good friend who will always help you when you are in trouble. I believe in being responsibly supportive to my friends, family and my best friend ? my future D/s partner ? in a calm and sincere manner. I can at times have a strong, but gentle and patient personality. ?I am intelligent, commutative, well balanced, successful and independent, but at the same time I have a sense of vulnerability about myself. And by the way, I don?t generally stay or get very upset for long when things don?t go my way (just try to make the best of things). You should know that I am a non-"smoker/drinker", who loves sports and adventure and somehow manages to have a good sense of humor through life?s ups and down ? keeping it all in perspective. For me it is important to be more loving and caring and develop personal trust - not only in my life, but with my heart as well. And I value the same qualities in other people.

"Seduction isn?t making someone do what they don?t want to do, it's enticing them into doing what they secretly want to do already"
At times I can be very fun loving, and creative. I?m generally physically fit, care about my appearance, healthy and love life. Picture me as someone who is easygoing, but not lazy ? a very decent and fair person. I tend to be athletic and am considered still to be handsome by some, with loving dark brown eyes. I?m a very energetic person who can be very kind and tender, who loves animals and especially, dogs. You might be interested that I graduated from several Universities a number of years ago and that my profession is that of a self employed Structural Engineering Consultant, Author and Artist. On a final note, please understand that I want to find a woman who is ready to give her love to me. The woman who is able to compromise and forgive, to work at our relationship, to grow together with me ? will be the woman I seek.

"You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses"
Interests You should know that I am a man who loves life, and loves to lead a healthy and active lifestyle, which includes cooking nutritious foods, going to the gym to workout, jogging, swimming, hiking, spending time in the great outdoors ... and cycling. When time and weather permits, it would be a delight to share the adventure of sea kayaking, skiing, or going to different festivals, the theatre (or concerts), and art museums (as I love painting) with someone special. I also like simple things like going to the movies, reading books, music, picnics, dancing, traveling, camping, and backpacking. I'm someone who enjoys playing sports like basketball, volleyball, racquetball, badminton, tennis, and golf, and I would adore it if you would want to join me in some of these interests and activities.

"Within your circle of intensity, my soul does dance"
You see, I have a lot of interests and I know world has thousands incredible things to experience, learn and see. I hope to meet a woman with similar interests. Perhaps we can share some of it together - you can show me what you like and know and I you. I like being creative, and anything and everything that will stimulate me, or make my imagination flow can be interesting ? from history or math to beautiful architecture or Psychology. And fun ...?well something that will put a silly smile on my face, or being around my friends makes all the difference to me. And life just seems sweeter when with that special woman, and it could be as simple as being out hiking together, or spending time in the kitchen cooking ? talking about life and our future plans together.

"Come to the edge He said, she said I am afraid, come to the edge He said, she came, He pushed her and she flew"
Other What inspires me in my woman? Perhaps it is a little out of fashion these days, but I would love to find a special woman who has a natural cheerful optimism to share life?s joys, and sorrows, laughter and tears ? with understanding and compassion - all the while being loving, and affectionate. As I try to be like that myself. A faithful woman who is very kind hearted, warm and sweet, with a great tenderness and caring way about her. I would adore it if she loved nature, and shared some of my interests, and the adventure of life through sports and activities together. I value respect, and understanding in a relationship, and I respect a sincere woman with a rich inner world who is trying to make herself a better person.

"Sex is only dirty if it's done right"
She should be loyal, loving and respectful, enjoy making our home cozy and warm, like cooking, taking care of each other, and have a keen sense of humor and love of animals, especially dogs. Ok, a sensual and passionate woman who takes care of herself would be wonderful and a dream come true. But the most important thing is that she can be my best friend, and wants to love, and be loved, someone who has a great attitude, and tries to have a happy family in life ? this is real love. We all have strengths, and weaknesses, and I am not looking for a perfect woman - as I am not perfect. I am just looking for a devoted reliable partner, lover, and perhaps wife ? if it is just that amazing. I don?t like lies, betrayal or meanness, and I value her inner beauty more than physical appearance, but I must be greatly attracted to her in my own way. I dream to meet a woman who wants to create, and live together in happiness. Someone who can scratch beyond the surface of things, and not be superficial, materialistic, self-centered, or vane, but compassionate, and truly cares about others. Yes, she is nice, polite and considerate, not just to me, but to everyone. Someone who can open her heart to me, my life, and who wants to be a real team together. To this, I would give all my love, devotion, gentleness and warmth ? as understanding, and love are very important for me to be happy.

"Discipline is the bridge between learning and accomplishment"
Personal message First you must know that I?m eagerly looking forward to the adventure of our over coming our barriers ? hopefully with our sense of humor, and intelligence still in tack ... ;)! , But seriously, even thought it's been difficult to speak about myself here, I want you to know that I want to be fully involved in the process and am ready to give all my heart and soul to the right woman. If you are the right woman, you will become my best friend, my partner, my love, my ? everything. And even thought life has its ups and downs, we shall try to enjoy every minute of our lives together. I am not a rich man, but I know exactly what I want out of this life, and try very hard to achieve it, and I will put all my resources available to reach those goals.

"If you don't bring much to the table, don't expect to sit at the head of it"
I am very serious about someone, and want to create a happy atmosphere where every member can feel needed, protected and loved. That is why I believe life is too short for vanity, arguing, misunderstandings, or meanness and insulting behavior. Now, being a man who doesn?t like to argue, or fight, I believe that we should communicate any problem in a loving, and kind way before it causes any resentment. I wish you the best of luck with your search and thanks for reading my profile ? Blessings.

"True submission is born in the mind, developed in the soul, and expressed through love"
My Dominant Needs (under construction) I am confident, and secure in who, and what ? I am, and I do not settle. For me, this lifestyle is a private matter between us, and therefore not flaunted for anyone?s personal amusement ? as we will seem "normal" to the world at large.?Beyond the vanilla above, I am looking for a intelligent woman who enjoys D/s and BDSM ? who would like to explore hot, erotic submission that is woven into our everyday lives. In essence, a real-life D/s relationship that incorporates both the physical, and psychological aspects of power and control ? D/s offers ? with true intimacy, and deeply erotic romance. ? It is who we are ? and we celebrate this often.

"The greatest danger for most of us is not that our expectations are set too high and we can't achieve them, but that they are set too low and we actually reach them"
I tend to be a patient man, kind, and generous ? who rewards good behavior, and dispenses firm discipline when appropriate.?My thought is that a key to our happiness is a sense of D/s longevity, and meaning. In my mind, one must incorporate this feeling as an undertone in the relationship ... so that is felt at all times ... yes, of course it must adapted as necessary, and appropriate, depending on the environment and circumstances. But, it is imperative that the "D/s flame" ... remain strong, and not be extinguished by the demands of our real vanilla lives.? ? In the context of kindness, and compassion that I would provide ? there is something else very important ... acceptance, and love. You will be safe in my arms ... because I will strive to know you, to discover everything about you ? and still love you for not only who you are now ? but, what you can become in the future. Make no mistake here ? I will discover all your dirty little secrets, but ? to me, you will still be beautiful ? body and soul.

"Man has within him beasts and gods, and he is only truly man when each may thrive and both are fed"
Respect is paramount. I need to feel pride in you, and your efforts ? and you in me. I want you to be able to make your place in the vanilla world with your head held high ? and yet, still submit to me. Discipline, and good behavior are a priority in my life, and shall be with us ? and you will know ? I am a man who means what he says. If you are indeed, this woman, I know only all to well ? that you can be with any man, and yet ? choose to be with me.

"The stronger the woman the deeper her surrender" ? No matter your experience, you must be willing to deeply explore your sexuality with me. You must be prepared ? to be challenged ? to deepen your submission. I love the fine art of "the tease" ? so be prepared to be stretched to the point where you get all wet, and hunger for me ... as I lead you to greater heights of sensuous desires thought sexual tension. Be prepared to change from a lady, to a harlot ... at my command ? and be able to shift gears from lewd, and lascivious, to classy, and presentable, and back ...?as I desire. A tease, always a tease ? as I believe in contrasting requirements that add sexual tension, and excitement to our daily existence ? keeping you wet, wanting, and wondering ? as I love to mentor, spoil, cuddle, hug, kiss, instruct, discipline, encourage and praise ? with a erotic twist. It is my believe that this can be accomplished in a positive, loving, and trusting environment ? where romance and submission can effectively coexist ... each reinforcing the other to create ? nothing less than ? magic. Although you are provided with the structure you need to make you feel safe, owned, and desired ? make no mistake ? you will be molded according to my wishes. And although you have your own thoughts ? you want to learn and be taught by me. You have a huge sex drive, brains, and a wicked sense of humor, and adore that I want to protect, and watch out for you ? to treat you like you are extremely important to me. A special person that will cherish our time that we are together, and keep wanting more ? always more ?

"Having an open mind is a beautiful thing, but not so open your brains fall out"

Above all else, I would cherish you, and love to guide you to new, and ever changing areas of your arousal and pleasure. Make note, sometimes I am rough and forceful ...?taking what I want, when and how I want it ? and other times I can be very romantic, and loving. Although I am not an expert in the BDSM life style per se, I am experienced in what I enjoy doing, and want the adventure to continue ? as I learn, and grow together with you. You see, I believe in life long learning, and it is my desire to continue to evolve as a Man, and a Dominant, and to explore your submissive nature ? with your heartfelt kinky desires of bondage, discipline, rough, or forced sex ? just to name a few. In the past, I myself have enjoyed the pleasures a Dom receives from bondage, begging, body worship, breast play, crops, corner time, eye contact restrictions, collars, blindfolds, fisting, gags, hair pulling, hypnosis, massage, mental bondage, obedience training, orgasm control, orgasm on command, outdoor bondage, breath control, wax play, speech and eye restrictions and I?m further interested in shibari and suspension.

"Never make someone your priority when you are merely their option"
Please note that I am in control of myself ? but not controlling, persistent in what I want ? but not oppressive, kind ? but with a wild, slightly twisted sense humor, assertive ? but not cocky, protective of you ? but not smothering. Now, as an artist, you will be my canvas ? blurring the line between the pleasures of reality, and your yearnings of fantasy ? until they become one ? to meet your desires of ecstasy ? and my personal pleasures. As I encourage you to grow and become more ? I will not prey upon your weaknesses or fears ? rather, we shall ... together ? build your dignity, and increase your self-respect. To win your submissive mind, your body, your soul, I know I must first win your trust ...?and your heart.

I must lead you with both compassionate and passionate dominance ? and always ...?a kind heart.

I believe in a nurturing dominance, a true concern for your mental, and emotional well being, as well as a true concern for your tender heart.

"The best cage is the one around the mind"
You have a natural healthy dose of common sense when it comes to all this. You are able to express yourself, and your desires in a respectful, and timely manner to me. It is not like you can't make your own decisions, but ? sometimes you choose you choose to defer them ? and in that release ? you not only find freedom ? but the joy of release. You are definitely not a victim or helpless ? as you are truly empowered by your total submission. Some days, you find yourself fantasizing about deviant carnal sexual acts, and yearn to be forced to comply. The idea of having no control is a huge turn-on for you, and you love to be ordered to sexually satisfy ? being made to service my desires. ? My standards seem to high ? good ? your standards should be high as well. ? You aren't afraid of examining problems to work through with me ? as your confidence will grow ... as we push your limits farther than you ever though you could go. However, I will respect your hard limits ? and honor our safe word. And finally, I do understand the differences between fantasy, and reality ? and I would never ask you to unduly put me before the realities of your career, or family, just to satisfy my own pleasure.

"True power whispers, it has no reason to yell" ? If you have these deep and ... yearning desires within you ? to live the D/s lifestyle in a completely real, loving and kind environment ? and you have the strength, spirit and commitment that is required, I'd like you to write me. Perhaps, just perhaps ? we can transform our deepest dreams ... into reality.

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