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	About blueyedsoul Respect and trust is a two way street...Say what you mean...mean what you say. Im a man of many layers...peeling them back youll find, a sensual, strong, compassionate, positive, creative, devoted, open minded, adventurous, heart on his sleeve kinda guy..and cant forget a sense of humor. As much as I hate labels, I would consider myself a Sensualist...just love the heightening of all 5 senses...the sights, the scents, the tastes, the feels and the sounds of it all.The dance of Ds between lovers, the way I see it is the deepest, most soulful expression two people can have together. For me, its about the balance...tenderness....passion...kink...trust...non-judgement...perversions...sweetness...and the art of that soul kiss. Being so into one another that you ache and crave for that next moment.Just puttin myself out there again after a brief hiatus. Anybody can administer a spanking, but the reason why it is done and in the manner it is done in this kind of dynamic can be very cerebral, dont you think? So careful of those that just call themselves Dominant, when they feel it is a just an excuse to be abusive...they give us real men a bad reputation.Yesterday is gone, tomorrow hasnt arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and Im going to be happy in it.

Lying.....very hard limit. So very disappointing.

The following was taken from Submissive Loving by Cerina X. I wanted to share as I found it might be some good insight for any submissives beginning their journey in finding a genuine Dominant partner. These are some red flags to keep in mind. Unhealthy Control - Warning Signs of the Non Dominant By Cerina X (all rights reserved) 1) Controlling behavior due to fear of losing their partner. A) Isolating the submissive from family and friends B) Discouraging self sufficient behavior C) Not allowing any social interaction which does not include the dominant D) Out of control jealousy 2) Explosive temper 3) Behaves like a spoiled child when not getting his/her way 4) Abuses drugs/alcohol 5) Does not take responsibility for mistakes 6) Uses unhealthy behavior to gain control over the submissive A) Emotional blackmail example: Keeping the submissive in a constant state of fear that the relationship will end if they don't get their way. B) Emotional Withdrawal example: Using the "silent treatment" or physically withdrawing and cutting off all contact rather than communicating and taking responsibility for the situation. C) Withdrawal of affection Refusing any/all intimacy as a punishment which can be quite damaging and reinforces the fear that the submissive will lose the relationship unless he/she gives into this type of blackmail.

A strong submissive We?ve all read the phrase time and again and we nod in agreement. Submissives and slaves are / can be strong women, and strong women can be submissives and slaves. And nobody can deny. But what then is this mythical strong submissive? Let me bust a few myths of a different kind: a strong submissive is not someone who fights her Dom/Master for control or tries to renegotiate every step along the way. It also does not mean a woman in fancy lingerie and fuck-me heels, seducing her her partner into doing what she wants. That is not submission. And women who begin by spelling out what they want instead of wondering what they can give? That is not strength. As for the woman who denies responsibility for her submission and seeks to have dominance imposed on her? No, that?s not strength, that is asking for abuse. So wherein lies the strength in submission? Strength in submission means being willing to do battle with yourself and accepting the guidance and assistance of your Dom/Master in doing so. It means the strength to accept responsibility for your own actions, overcome convention and upbringing and the standards of society and fulfill the needs of a submissive soul. It means doing battle with fears and obstacles in the ultimate effort to find your truth under the guidance of another. Giving up resistance and letting the other decide where you travel next. Accepting responsibility for your choice and the consequences. Facing demons, abandoning pride, ego, dignity and showing the barest bones of your self to give to his pleasure. It means accepting that some things you are asked to do go against every grain in your body and doing them anyway. Not balking at the first sign of something you may consider less pleasant, but accepting, nay savouring the challenge. But most of all, what takes strength is looking beyond the cliches, and getting down on your knees of your own free will. Exposing your body, heart and soul and allowing the other to take the lead in your most vulnerable state. That takes strength, and courage. And any Dom or Master worth his salt will be honoured to see all that force voluntarily surrendered at his feet.

Musique Erotique

by: Yours Truly :)

The acoustic guitar can be quite a sensual instrument in my opinion..its shaped like a woman with bold curves and must be handled with care...fingertips on the head to make sure you are in perfect tune....your hand slides and caresses up and down her neck..fingers pluck her strings gently, passionately making her sing sweetly...building up into a more aggressive strum making her sing louder and stronger...the vibration of the strings as it enters the sound hole of her body..the way the wood brings out her intense highs and throbbing lows while surrounded by beautiful timbre and tone colors..and when the song is over, she's still there in your lap around your arms.

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