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Male Switch, 63, SACRAMENTO, California
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Male Submissive, 29, mumbai
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About bluenote44
I'm a newly switch guy. What does that mean? Well, for a long time, I've been primarily submissive. I had had a few Topping experiences, and lately I've been thinking of trying more of that. Most of my experience is as a submissive, which may or may not give me an insight into the Dominant/Top side of things.
More about me
I'm 37, experimental, bisexual, willing to try new things. Fairly open minded, politically moderate. I have a Bachelor's degree, working on a Masters. I'm able to take care of myself, as well as others. I have an executive position, a flexible schedule. I'm comfortable in jeans and a sweatshirt, a suit...or nothing at all, as the situation demands. I can carry a conversation. I read voraciously, both fiction and non-fiction.
What I'm looking for
I'm actually looking for some different things
- I want to try more Dominant/Top activities, but I realize I'm a newbie/wannabe in that area. As a result, I'd like to find friends and people I can talk to to learn and explore that area. A Dom to be my mentor would be especially welcome. Someone who can show me the ropes (and the whips, the floggers, the clamps, etc. :D).
- If you're a submissive woman who's looking for an experienced Dom to bring you to your knees and turn you into the slut you know you really are - well, I'm not that guy. But, if you're an experienced submissive woman who is willing to teach while submitting, we might have some fun.
- Dommes and female switches are most welcome. I have 10 years or so of R/T experience.
I'd really be interested - from the submissive side - in experiencing a lot of the "edgier" stuff and pushing some limits.
My philosophy of BDSM rests on communication, trust and mutual respect. As a submissive, I am not a doormat, stupid or worthless. As a Dom, I would never think that of a submissive. There are some things that are hard limits, but, outside of them, with proper communication and trust, I'd be willing to try anything else.
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