I understand that many of you reading this have no desire to read a lengthy profile containing what essentially amounts to the ramblings of a heavily opinionated and relatively new Master(I have no disillusions, nor will I lie about my experience). That being said, you have stumbled upon my profile of your own accord, either via the ingenious randomness of this site(It's quite fun, which I'm sure many of you have discovered by now) or by the profile of my slave, boundslave4life.
You come here seeking to know more about myself, or the relationship I share with alexian(boundslave4life). If I haven't scared you off as of yet, by all means continue reading.
Pictures of myself and alexian will be added in the near future. Patience.
First, I should clarify what I am. I am the Master and Owner of boundslave4life. In the interest of stripping away her former life, I have renamed her. her slave name is now alexian, and that is how I will refer to her in the future. We are a Master/slave couple(see below for what that means to me)
Which brings me to my second opinion. Semantics.
All of us on this site are living what is commonly referred to as an alternative lifestyle. That simply means we are happier doing what we like to do, and not being style we don't feel suits us. Given that we are living "alternatively" there are no hard rules as to what consitutes a slave, or a Master.
Perhaps a little respect, and a few simple questions would go a long way towards alleviating the hostility on this site. Let me clarify what my opinions of a Master and slave are, as well as Dom/Sub. There are of course strictly my opinions, and I don't expect everyone, or anyone at all for that matter, to agree with me, but they are my opinions, so take this into account when speaking with me or mine.
Master and slave go hand in hand. Literally. One cannot be a Master without a slave. Similarly, one cannot be a slave without it's Master. They are two parts of one whole. A slave without a Master feels incomplete, as does a Master with no slave.
A slave exists solely to serve her master, she is not allowed to have limits, there are no safe words, and she may not leave without Him releasing her. Her responsibility is His happiness. By contrast, a Master must take control of every aspect of the slaves life. He will make her decisions for her. Not just the ones He wants to choose, but even the ones He doesn't like. His responsibility is her safety and security. He is the rock, and she is the flower which grows upon it. Together they nurture each other. He gives her what she needs to thrive, and she in turn makes His life worth living. A Master/slave relationship is a massive commitment. It is permanent. It is all the time. There are no breaks in a Master/slave relationship, even if the Master is exhausted from a hard day at work, he still must assert control over his slave. He can't just say "I'm tired, go do what you want." A slave can't refuse her Master's commands because he worked her too hard, or used her too much. But both of them should know the other's limits. A Master would know just how much His slave can take, and keep pushing her just slightly past that threshold. A slave should know when her Master is not at his best, and do everything she can to make him smile.
Master and slave have a symbiotic relationship, neither can exist without the other. Not happily anyway.
A Dominant and a submissive on the other hand, are more forgiving and relaxed. A Dom/sub can have limits, they can walk away at any time, and they're not a permanent pairing. That is the major different between the two sets.
Just a bit of advice, clarify what you want on this site. If you don't tell people what you want, then how can you expect them to know. Don't beat around the bush. Be blunt. Be honest. Be detailed. Or be disappointed.
What I seek on this site is two-fold.
First and foremost I seek information from those more experienced than I. I am relatively new to this, and I won't be so arrogant as to say I know all there is to know about this lifestyle, and I would always be open to improvement on training techniques and reinforcement.
Second, in due time, I would like to obtain a "sister" for my slave. I am no rush to find one, however, and will wait for the right one. A Master/slave relationship is a major decision, and one which I do not take lightly.
My rules are simple.
For Masters/Doms/Dommes, sorry but I'm old fashioned, and territorial. My slave is my property, and she shall be treated as such. I do not allow anyone to disrespect what's mine, be it my car, my home, my computer or my slave. If you are disrespectful of what's mine, I will allow mine to be disrespectful back.
For those that are hoping to use/play with my slave:
Yes. I am well aware that my slave is a prize, the rarest of the rare, and a true gift. I am not an ingrate that will just toss my slave to the first person who asks to use it. That's not going to happen. Show that you are worth using a slave such as mine, and perhaps I will allow it.
Be wise in how you approach me about what's mine. If I don't know you, why would I allow you to "Borrow" my slave for a night? Why should I believe you would bring such a prize back to me? How do I know you're clean? What measures would you take to make sure she's kept safe? Show that you deserve my time, and usage of my toy.
This goes for online as well. There will not be online, or offline sessions, play or usage without me watching over. Ever. Nor will I have my slave do a session with someone just because they ask. As stated above. My slave is a prize. Show some interest in more than just what's between her legs.
Any inquires about above should be sent to me directly via message on here, however I prefer to be reached directly on Yahoo at Bleed4MeAlways@Yahoo.com
Any inquires made through my slave will be laughed off my screen. If you're so pathetic that you need to make an inquiry though a piece of property and not it's owner, you're clearly not worth either of our time.
slaves/subs are welcome to chat with myself or my slave without fear of demands. I've seen the messages she gets. I'm astounded there are still women on this site, given the way some of these "men" act towards them. To those women out there, I apologize for the weaker members of my sex. Some of them never grew up, and have no respect, don't let them pollute the water, so to speak.
