i have been duped, played and messed with. All good things because i learned from every episode and thats a GOOD thing. i have crawled off and licked my wounds and i find that my journey now continues. Are there any SINGLE Dominant men left out there? By single i mean... unattached and unmarried. No wife that doesn't understand, no g/f that doesn't understand, no other sub/slave, as i am definatly not a beta sub/slave. SINGLE!!

i am seeking a D/s relationship (duh lol). i do not, will not "date" vanilla as vanilla doesn't fulfill me at all. Possible LTR...TPE??

my ideal Dom...is Dominant in every aspect of His life. He has a sadistic streak, to match my masochistic one. He is experienced in rope bondage, an expert flogger. He will understand that refusing to speak to me is viewed as punishment. He will capture my mind, as He knows that the brain is the MOST sexual organ in the body. He can change my "attitude" with a look...or with a smile. He is reasonably attractive, doesn't have to be "Tom Selleck" but His looks won't make my mother shudder. He is h/w proportionate. Solid built is one thing, overweight is quite another.(Sorry Sirs...the h/w thing goes both ways. *s*) He will enjoy attending munches, playparties, ect. i do not have ALOT of experience it that area, but have been to a few and would like to attend more.

i have a very strong personality, i need a stronger one in order to give up control. Thru my trials and tribulations, i have learned that "soft" will always get topped from the bottom. You don't have to be an as*hole, just assertive.

About me: i enjoy anything outdoors, ride horses when my schedule permits, flea markets, rollarcoasters and the beach. i like to read and i think the computer is one of the greatest inventions of all time. i have kids, almost grown and a house full of animals. i smoke.. a nasty habit i'm trying to quit. i drink alcohol on rare occasions, coffee is one of my biggest vices...GOTTA HAVE IT!! *s* Fresh ground when i am at home. i can cook. i have a good sense of humor and can laugh at myself. i am an early to bed, early to rise girl. Mornings are the best time of the day. i can not relocate.

In closing, i would make most a wonderful sub.....Is there one that would cherish me as His slave????