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About Bleed4MeAlways
I understand that many of you reading this have no desire to read a lengthy profile containing what essentially amounts to the ramblings of a heavily opinionated and relatively new Master(I have no disillusions, nor will I lie about my experience). That being said, you have stumbled upon my profile of your own accord, either via the ingenious randomness of this site(It's quite fun, which I'm sure many of you have discovered by now) or by the profile of my slave, Blonde2BeBound.
You come here seeking to know more about myself, or the relationship I share with alexian(Blonde2BeBound). If I haven't scared you off as of yet, by all means continue reading.
Pictures of myself and alexian will be added in the near future. Patience.
First, I should clarify what I am. I am the Master and Owner of Blonde2BeBound. In the interest of stripping away her former life, I have renamed her. her slave name is now alexian, and that is how I will refer to her in the future. We are a Master/slave couple(see below for what that means to me)
Which brings me to my second opinion. Semantics.
All of us on this site are living what is commonly referred to as an alternative lifestyle. That simply means we are happier doing what we like to do, and not being style we don't feel suits us. Given that we are living "alternatively" there are no hard rules as to what consitutes a slave, or a Master.
Perhaps a little respect, and a few simple questions would go a long way towards alleviating the hostility on this site. Let me clarify what my opinions of a Master and slave are, as well as Dom/Sub. There are of course strictly my opinions, and I don't expect everyone, or anyone at all for that matter, to agree with me, but they are my opinions, so take this into account when speaking with me or mine.
Master and slave go hand in hand. Literally. One cannot be a Master without a slave. Similarly, one cannot be a slave without it's Master. They are two parts of one whole. A slave without a Master feels incomplete, as does a Master with no slave.
A slave exists solely to serve her master, she is not allowed to have limits, there are no safe words, and she may not leave without Him releasing her. Her responsibility is His happiness. By contrast, a Master must take control of every aspect of the slaves life. He will make her decisions for her. Not just the ones He wants to choose, but even the ones He doesn't like. His responsibility is her safety and security. He is the rock, and she is the flower which grows upon it. Together they nurture each other. He gives her what she needs to thrive, and she in turn makes His life worth living. A Master/slave relationship is a massive commitment. It is permanent. It is all the time. There are no breaks in a Master/slave relationship, even if the Master is exhausted from a hard day at work, he still must assert control over his slave. He can't just say "I'm tired, go do what you want." A slave can't refuse her Master's commands because he worked her too hard, or used her too much. But both of them should know the other's limits. A Master would know just how much His slave can take, and keep pushing her just slightly past that threshold. A slave should know when her Master is not at his best, and do everything she can to make him smile.
Master and slave have a symbiotic relationship, neither can exist without the other. Not happily anyway.
A Dominant and a submissive on the other hand, are more forgiving and relaxed. A Dom/sub can have limits, they can walk away at any time, and they're not a permanent pairing. That is the major different between the two sets.
Just a bit of advice, clarify what you want on this site. If you don't tell people what you want, then how can you expect them to know. Don't beat around the bush. Be blunt. Be honest. Be detailed. Or be disappointed.
What I seek on this site is two-fold.
First and foremost I seek information from those more experienced than I. I am relatively new to this, and I won't be so arrogant as to say I know all there is to know about this lifestyle, and I would always be open to improvement on training techniques and reinforcement.
Second, in due time, I would like to obtain a "sister" for my slave. I am no rush to find one, however, and will wait for the right one. A Master/slave relationship is a major decision, and one which I do not take lightly.
My rules are simple.
For Masters/Doms/Dommes, sorry but I'm old fashioned, and territorial. I won't allow my slave to be used by another man. I was never one to share my toys as a child, and I'm not about to start now. Don't ask to borrow her, don't ask to use her. I like my slave clean, for health reasons, and I'd rather not have to have her tested every week. You are more than willing to make requests to me for other things however, pictures and what not, but you will never touch her. Ever. Ask, and your message will be ignored. You may not have her phone number either. Don't ask.
I may relax that rule for Dommes in time, but I would have to know the Domme quite well before I allowed anything to take place in real time.
slaves/subs are welcome to chat with myself or my slave without fear of demands. I've seen the messages she gets. I'm astounded there are still women on this site, given the way some of these "men" act towards them. To those women out there, I apologize for the weaker members of my sex. Some of them never grew up, and have no respect, don't let them pollute the water, so to speak. |
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I needed a place to type up my slaves rules. This will work sufficiently. There are many more to come, this is just the start, the basics if you will.
1. Proper Eyeline
a. When speaking to it's Master or someone of authority, the slave is to avert it's gaze to the base of the Dominants neck.
b. When speaking to another submissive/slave or some of equal stature, the slave may make eye contact.
c. When taken out of the house, the slave is to wear eye makeup at all times.
d. When taken out of the house, if in "educated" society, the above rules apply, but when taken into "uneducated" society, the slave may revert to more "normal" rules.
2. Proper Address
a. The slave is to refer to it's Master as Master.
b. The slave is to refer to other Dominants as "Sir" or "Ma'am." If the Dominant prefers to be addressed as something specific(i.e. Gorean Masters), the slave is to adhere to those preferences.
c. The slave is to refer to itself as "lexi" or whatever it's Master is calling it at the time. slut, whore, cunt, bitch, whatever it's Master is currently using.
d. If the slave has something it wishes to say, it must wait for Master to acknowledge it.
e. If the slave wishes to get it's Master's attention, it must whimper like the bitch that it is until it's Master acknowledges it.
f. The slave is not permitted to swear.
3. Proper Deportment
a. When entering or leaving a room it''s Master is in, the slave is to kneel at the doorway until acknowledged by it's Master.
b. When relaxing with it's Master, the slave is to be on a lower level than it's Master. If Master is on the couch, the slave must be on the floor, etc.
c. When Master enters a room that the slave is occupying, the slave must get on it's knees, present it's ass in the air, with it's face on the floor, and arms between it's legs. The slave may not move until Master inspects the slave.
d. When Master orders slave to stand, it is to stand with it's hands behind it's back, legs spread shoulder width apart.
e. When Master orders slave to kneel, it is to kneel with it's ass resting on it's feet, legs spread, and hands behind it's back. The slave is also required to open it's mouth for a gag or cock, unless told to close it.
6. When Master orders slave to sit, it is to sit with it's legs crossed indian-style, and hands resting on it's thighs.
7. The slave is not permitted on furniture unless specified by it's Master.
4. Proper Appearance/Dress
a. Slave must be clean and shaven at all times.
b. Slave is not permitted to wear clothes unless specified by Master.
c. When out in public, slave is permitted to wear clothes picked out by it's Master, however, slave is only allowed to wear panties when the slave is on it's period.
d. Slave is to be collared at all times. Only Master may remove the collar for showering and bathing.
5. Proper Etiquette
6. Proper Protocol
7. Punishments and Rewards
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