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Male Dominant, 28, marietta, Georgia
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Male Dominant, 46, Winter Springs, Florida
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Male Dominant, 52, Sacramento, California
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As some may have noticed, I am not on this site as much anymore. I've found a new "home" & have connected with many of you there. I needed to connect with people who are serious about this life, & are not just picture trolling, or hunting for sex...and I found a place for serious minded people. For those of you that view my profile & are interested in getting to know me, please just leave me a msg, & I will follow up with you. To the rest of you, take care. |
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I wish you all a Happy Holiday, whatever you celebrate, & a wonderful New Year! |
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The Dom-i-NOTS on this site are quite funny, dontcha think?
Just because one is a submissive does not mean s/he has no common sense *SMH*
A cool leather outfit & a belt dont make you a Dominant...
Just because your girfirend used to call you Daddy dosent make you a Dominant...
Just a thought! :) |
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I thought it was quite clear, but if it's not, blaqluv is a submissive. I seek sub/slaves as friends, but I have not interest in being a Top/Domme. Thank you! |
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Finally went to my first munch & dungeon...Great experience! |
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Hmmm...If I say no thanks to you, respect that, & move on...don't belittle yourself, & act like a child...showing how immature you truly are. Respect me, & I'll always respect you. |
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As the year is closely coming to an end, I thought I would update my journal. This year has had a few highs, a few lows, and a few things in between. I am happy to say that I've made a lot of new friends in the lifestyle, both Dominants, and submissives...friends that I am sure I will have for a very long time. I learned a lot as well. No, I'm not owned, but I'm not worried about that. When it's time for me to take my place at my One's feet, it will happen. That being said, if you're not truly into the lifestyle, but just seeking someone for some kinky one night stands, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I will not respond. If you want to get to know me, just send me a message. If I don't update my journal again before the year is out, I wish everyone a WONDERFUL HOLIDAY SEASON!   |
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Daddy, where are you...*sigh* |
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~LIVE~
~LEARN~
~LOVE~
*I strive to do this everyday, though I'm not always successful at it...but life is all about growing each day...so I must continue.*
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I've learned & promised myself to remind myself about the following quote every single day:
?Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option?
Has nothing to do with me being defiant as a submissive, but it does have to do with me not allowing myself to be taken advantage of simply because I am submissive. I find strength in my role, and those who seem to think that subs are just weak, still have not truly learned themselves what the true definiton of submission is. |
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*Yawn* Some of your emails about Sub school amuse me. They really do. I does not matter to me if you don't take it seriously, as I do. Just don't expect a reply from me if you email me with nonsense. |
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***Reminder***I seek subs as friends. I am not going to dominate anyone!!So please stop asking! |
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***Reminder*** I am owned by no one, so please don't act like you own me. Thank you! School is going well. Thank you for those who ask! *smile*  |
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Yea!! I'm now officially in Subbie school! Lots to read! Lots to do! Yea!!! |
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Finally! A new chapter will begin next month in my life & I am so excited... Patience will always get you what you want, when the time is right for you to have it. |
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THANK YOU!
I will leave it at that. This sub appreciates it |
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*sigh*
Will i ever find that Dom that is right for me? Someone who isn't trying to use BDSM as an excuse to get laid, someone who won't harrass me, stalk me, punish me out of boredom, tell me they are a DOm, when they are really trying to get me to dominate them, hiding behind a computer, blah blah blah... I could go on forever but I will stop here. If there is anyone preferably black, but I am open who is a local, who thinks they can manage me, and would like to get to know me, please get in touch. |
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I'm back!
I have been gone for awhile, dealing with my health but I have returned. Thank you for the well wishes. |
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Just wishing everyone a happy healthy & naughty new year... |
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I just wanted to wish all my fellow subs, Dom/mes,slaves, & switches a wonderful holiday season, regardless of what you celebrate (if you do at all) & all the best for 2006.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!
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Just my thought for the day...Submission is a gift, not to be taken lightly. Let me say that again...Submission is a gift, not to be taken lightly! |
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I have not written in awhile. I thank you all for your suggestions. They were very helpful. I bought a few things and can't wait to use them! My birthday is coming up soon, so I know what I'll be doing... Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you in case I didn't email you back and say so. Despite the amount of "play doms" out here that make me laugh thinking that they really think they are true doms(and they are faaar from it) I appreciate those of you that have tried to help me along my journey. |
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Well hello everyone. I have not made an entry in quite some time. I've had quite a bit going on. Anyway, I'm thinking about the holidays, and I would like to know if anyone who lives in the New York area could suggest a store I could buy BDSM things in, or a good website, that you stand behind their products? Let me know. |
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PS. I am not into "race play". All that would do is make me an ABW (Angry Black Woman) so if you seek me because you want a black slave in every sense of the word, sorry! Not my thing. |
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Let's please be real with ourselves. LDR will not work. Therefore if you are not in New York, or New Jersey, it won't work. Now if you live in Maryland or DC, or even part of Penn, thats ok because a lot of people within those areas commute to the city on a regular basis. Outside of that, not interested in meeting. I always say I will converse with everyone (as long as I feel comfortable doing so) as I want to know people from all aspects of this lifestyle. However if you are asking me if I'm collared, (which I am not) and you do not live in either of those places, save yourself the trouble. For those of you looking for a live in slave, that's not me. A submissive, yes, but to live in, no. |
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I am up late, alone with my thoughts...I do apologize to those of you I converse with regularly for my quietness, but I have been dealing with a few things in my personal life. For those of you that know & understand, I appreciate your kind words. I have been seeing changes within myself, some I understand, some I do not. I guess that is all a part of learning. People who are close to me are suprised that I am taking this so seriously, as they do not see me being submissive at all. I tell them everyone has more than one side to them, & I am embracing mine. I am suprised myself! |
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You know a lot of Doms complain about not being able to find women of color who are comfortable being subs, but I must say that so many have welcomed me & shared thigns with me & some of us have even become friends. There are a lot of us out here in this lifestyle, but if your approach isn't on point, well, we will stay in the shadows. Demanding my submission does not entitle you to it. I will submit completly to whom I feel deserves it, and will respect it. |
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Well well well...another week is ending...nothing new to report. All I can say is that I have made some decisions about what I want. Yeah!! :-) For those of you who ask why don't have a profile, its because I don't want one. If you want to know my needs & desires feel free to ask. I will also say that I would prefer to converse with people who have photos. If you don't have a photo posted b/c you are hiding from the wife, or someone else, we don't need to speak. If you don't have one in your profile, it would be nice to send one with your message to me. If anyone knows of any upcoming events, please let me know. I have met a variety of people, some worth keeping in touch with, some not, but I am always looking to make new friends within my area. |
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This has been a very interesting journey so far. I've met some very nice people, some very not so nice people, and some that fall in between...lol I just want to make it clear that my desire to be submissive does not mean I have a desire to be taken advantage of, or to be abused. If you seek that from a sub, you are lookng at the wrong one! Don't mistake my desire for a weakness, as I am definitely not a weak individual. My private life is very different from my public life. This is something I want to enjoy with like minded people. All I ask is for your honesty & your respect. If it's not given, do not expect to receive it. Especially from me! |
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How many ways can i say NO! i could be a smarta$$ and write it in a few languages, but i will not. If i have told you i am not interested in every way possible, let it go! It looks very unbecoming for a Dom to beg. VERY. |
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I must say I am very pleased with the reception I have received & it is only my second day here! I just feel a need to clarify a few things:
1. I am not looking for a sub. It states clearly in my profile that I am a sub female.
2. I am a full figured woman (size 16)
3. I have no problems conversing with anyone, but anything ignorant said to me will be ignored. I have no desire to deal with foolishness.
4. I am not looking for a sub! (I felt a need to say that again...)
5. If I you have reached out to me from another site, & I have let you know I am not interested, my mind is not going to change on this one.
Ok! I feel much better now |
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Today I have perused the message boards which are very informative for a newbie like me. I hope to gather more insight into this lifestyle, and make sure that I am choosing the right person for me to train with. I will try & maintain a journal to note my progress, my ups, & my downs. I do appreciate the welcome that I have been given by all. |
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