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About BlaqKitten
okay, haven't been here in a loooong while, so i'm doing a few updates:
I am a bbw sub with about 6-8 years experience, seeking older (45+) Doms into humiliation, D/s, bondage, and a number of other activities. I prefer white Doms into humiliation, race play, but this is no longer exclusive. Ideally would like to find an individual who isn't adverse to sharing or a group of Doms into faux rape and/or gangbangs. (You wouldn't believe how difficult that is to find in my area!) 24/7 is possible and desirable, if we are on the same page: while I love the lifestyle, I can't crawl behind you down Main St wearing a chain and a latex boustier! My public life is very vanilla; but in private, very few limits, taboos, or restrictions.
HOWEVER:
I AM NOT A PAIN SLUT. I DO NOT WANT TO BE A PAIN SLUT. THIS IS NOT NEGOTIABLE. IT IS NOT SOMETHING WE WILL EXPLORE. IT IS NOT A 'MAYBE' OR A 'BUT IF...' IT IS AN ABSOLUTE HARD LIMIT.
i am a sex slave. i am NOT a literal slave. i do not and will not talk like a mammy, and have no desire to wear rag dresses and do your gardening. this is not negotiable. it is an absolute hard limit.
i am not at all interested in any D/s relationship with anyone who does not respect limits. no, you will not do whatever you want to me. this is sex. it is not reality. the fact that you want me to basically give you the right to beat me sensless, lets me know that you are not on the right side of safe, sane & consensual play. this is a non-negotiable, absolute, hard limit. period. dont even ask.
i am not looking for online anything. if you are not willing to travel or meet within 30 days, you are wasting my time.
i am not a ghetto girl, sorry. i do not have multiple children, i speak perfect english, i take care of myself, i am not on welfare, and i dont watch BET. i am educated, extremely intelligent, informed on current events, and can hold a conversation with anyone about anything. do not be condescending, do not speak to me as if you are explaining yourself to a kindergartener, and don't ask me to be "more black." i dont know what that means. i am black. i'm just not a stereotype.
if you dont like sharing, do not expect any regular or 24/7 commitment with me. i need to be shared, that is part of what fulfills me. i will not entertain any longterm relationship where my needs arent going to be met. you wouldnt either. this may not be a permanent urge, but right now, it is.
if anything i've just said rubs you the wrong way, i dont apologize. but i dont want my time wasted and you shouldnt either. unlike many women here, i am being upfront about what i want. i ask you to do the same.
apparently i need to add a sidenote: i dont have a problem with black men or black doms. so with all due respect, please keep YOUR issues with MY choices to YOURSELVES. if you are in any way, shape, or form disrespectful to me, i promise you, i will be twice as disrspectful to you. |
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SOOO i'm trying to update my profile pics and all but i keep seeing my old pics, only one of my new ones seems to be there... sigh...
i haven't been here in over a year, and what a tumultuous year it has been. lost my main job and had my second job eliminated, fractured an ankle, and abandoned by a Dom. on the other hand, i have two new godchildren, watched one of my troubled cases not only graduate high school but win a scholarship to university, won a poetry contest, and sold quite a few paintings. so a lot of starting over, but you know, i found out i can take care of myself far better than i ever thought possible. being submissive shouldn't make you dependent.
then again, being a Dominant shouldn't make you an undependable jackass.
but that's another post.
good to be back, collarme.
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so i've been away for quite awhile- my apologies, and assurances i was not ignoring any one of you. it has been a very busy month or so, between work and my personal life. so thank you for your patience, and i will resume returning all messages ASAP! |
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day 3 of insomnia... but its okay. im elated to write that my rape may be happening very soon. i have my fingers crossed, this is a desire i have had for a long time. happy early bday to me! (i hope!) |
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hello to all...
i have had a very hard couple days here. in two days, two longtime friends were killed and a family friend hospitalized. i have been preoccupied with these events, so answering mail hasnt been a priority. i am not being disrespectful or neglectful of your time or queries, i just got hit with a lot at once. so please be patient and stop with the negative emails. thank you. |
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