The "checklist" system of describing yourself on collarme just doesn't cover it.

I'm a polyamorous, pansexual, sadomasochistic D/S switch who is into Ageplay, non-cutting knifeplay, dental play, aural sex, non-traditional uniforms, a bit of genderplay, impact play of most sorts, and I've lately gotten into both sides of punching and (possibly) kicking (haven't done enough to know for sure yet). Sometimes I even get kinky.

I have an interest in learning more about Old Guard ways, but I don't spend all my time there. It's more of a hobby than a fetish.

I have a spelling and grammar fetish. Want to impress me? Do us both the favor of at least running your message through a spellchecker before sending it.

I don't post photos of myself. If knowing how I look is important to you before we even meet, I'm not the right person for you.

I'm active in my local community. I've been doing BDSM education in and out of state off and on for several years, I volunteer for a variety of local organizations, I started and headed up my own organization for several years, and I'm active on SSBB on Usenet.

I'm looking most actively for dominant, dominant-leaning, top and switch men and women.