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Due to the nature of my job, I will not be posting pictures of myself on the site to be freely viewed by the world at large. I am more than willing to send a picture or two of myself (face/clothed only at first thank you very much! This desire that men have to send cock shots is stupid and vain, unless they have been specifically requested IMO) once I have established a rapport with any interested parties. Honestly. I am looking for a long term relationship here. A sub/slave that I love and care about enough to spend my whole life with. And who loves and cares for me enough to do the same. There is however one major snag with "long term relationship" for me. Not many people can handle my lifestyle and that has a tendency to get in the way of pursuing any real connection. My job takes me all over the world and will continue to do so. Six months here, three years there, I move a lot. I understand that many people have strings and roots tying them down and that there are not many who can just pick up and go at the drop of a hat. I also understand that the stresses of moving all the time can wear on people to a great degree. If these are not things that you think you can handle, don't even bother messaging me. I will say that I have a lot of family though, and I do not spend years without seeing them. Hell, I still call my mother almost every day just to check in and see how she's doing. So do not think you have to cut all of your friends and family out of your life. It is absurd to expect that of someone. A short section of personal (read: mostly physical because the only real personal will come from extended conversation and interaction) information: -I am average height, but feel somewhat short most of the time because my whole damned family is 6ft+. -I am only slightly chubby. And I actually, unlike others, mean that. I am the "I used to swim and surf and hike and mountain bike all day until I moved away from where the beaches and mountains are and put on a little weight" chubby, not the "I am actually fat/borderline obese but cannot write that on a profile because I fear judgement and/or changing my lifestyle to reflect who I want to be and must therefore initiate a relationship through lies so I can find the perfect woman who I can force to accept me physically after she has fallen in love with the inside me" chubby. And yes, I know that I could easily switch to running, or sports, or lake/pool swimming to keep up the physique I had, but I am human (shock!) and humans get lazy sometimes. It happens. -I dress to the occasion. I have blazers and expensive suits hanging right next to my faded band tees and my paint-stained work jeans. -I am a musician, artist, writer, avid reader, philosopher, psychology aficionado(major bonus points to the person that can give me the "correct" answer to "Who is better, Jung or Freud?"), chef, knitter, and a little bit of whatever else catches my attention and piques my interest enough for me to want to learn it. I intend to learn till the day I die. -Do I have religious beliefs? Yes. Am I willing to have a frank discussion over them with you? Yep. Am I willing to try to fight tooth and nail to convince you I am right and you are wrong/bad/evil? Hell fucking no. I expect the same courtesy. Also, I have not met the person yet who shares all the individual beliefs that I do have, but I am open to being shocked once or twice. Keeps the heart healthy, a good shock every now and again. If you are interested in a man who has an old fashioned sense of honor, a new age view on social liberties, a southern gentleman's background, a masters hand, a lovers heart, and an insatiable lust for all the new experiences the road can bring, then message me. If you are interested in a man who has a deep curiosity for the kink and dark in the bedroom yet considers you an equal in life outside of closed doors, then message me. If you are interested in living an actual adventure, something ripped straight out of a storybook, then message me.