bindlanley

Heading to the Boston area for two weeks.....May 19-30....msg if interested....

And back to square one...starting again...

I do not quite get the subs who post how they are now 'owned' yet need to post vids and pics of themselves like they are still on the prowl?   If you are owned do you really still need this?

Its interesting to read many profiles on here written by subs who seem to have written it when PMS hit.  Lighten up ladies.  Put your claws back in and ease your way down a bit.

Though I try to be kind and engage in a convo with most I meet on here, I don't really pursue those who just respond with one or two word replies.  Its not worth the effort if you can't keep a convo going.

No, I do not want to 'own' you after a five minute convo and a request to prove you are really a woman.  I own baseball cards and two dogs and a house.  I do not own strange people from this odd ball web site.

I love being sterotyped.  Its just fantastic.

I won't push...I won't force...I won't set expectations so high...feeling a lot of peace this week...one helping Me on so many levels...ty...its all I can say...but ty...and ty for staying...no agenda...no timeline...

just unfolding.

Interesting enough just today I have heard the phrases: Fake.  Player.  Nut jobs!  I can assure you its not just the men who are the ones acting in this manner.  Its on both sides.  Being patient and building friendships is my starting point.  I guess it just takes time.

So I got the 'your not real' accusation this weekend from a trolling slave on here because I wasn't chatting up a storm right away.  For one, I am very real.  Am happy to skype or yahoo IM on cam and mic with anyone to prove it. (are you?)  Secondly, when you expect me to be all 'chatty cathie' at 11:30 pm at night you can forget it.  That's just not how I am.  Third, I have been in the online community since 1993 - IRC chat, Dalnet, bondage.org yahoo chat rooms before they were killed.  I have talked to thousands of people in the lifestyle.  I don't just bare my soul to some wanna be slave from Texas late at night.

So now this person was going to blog how I wasn't real and just a fake.  Oh bother.  Some women on here still think they are in high school I guess.

Not quite sure how my situation makes me like a leper to some subs on here.  I don't bite and there is nothing wrong with attempting to make an online friendship.  CM is much more than a kinky dating site.   Maybe I got it all wrong.

I appreciate some of the intelligent and helpful feedback my last post has brought me.  I actually wrote that for several reasons.  It was requested by a few subs I have been talking to and its helped me to articulate what it is I am seeking.  The suggestion was to perhaps place in the midst of all that what qualifications I would have that one would want what I seek anyway.  I think that is a good point and I will continue to expand on it.  16 years experience, intelligence and confidence in knowing what I want and what I am doing is a good thing.

Suggestions for good, solid local so cal munches are always a nice thing to pass on to me.  I seriously doubt that I will ever find what it is I seek via this medium alone.

I am a realist.  (read - I am real.)  What I seek and what I have to offer is not for most on here.  I am optimistic that I will indeed find her.  Needle in the hay stack time.

Its been an interesting week on here for me that's for sure.  Thanks to those who are talking to me through a variety of issues...you are appreciated.  

brought back up into play...perhaps the better location to find what I am seeking.

Does a little acknowledgment to a friendly greeting ever hurt anyone?  I am amazed at those who won't ever respond.  Everyone likes mail.  I appreciate those who actually take time to answer and are civil on here.  Kindness goes a long way in the D/s world and in life in general.  Try it! 

The old say is true..."if its too good to be true, it probably is."   And the search begins again.

Heading out of the country for work purposes thus there may be a delay in responses.  Returning Feb 28  Cheers.

Twas a good day and encouraged by some good chat here recently with some very smart submissives and slaves.  I love smart women.  btw I am NOT seeking a male submissive.  I would be interested in dealing with a sub couple only to have him as a cuckold while I work with the wife or gf.

Also please remember that attempting to get a whole story about someone in a private chat while they are multitasking (ie - driving on an LA Freeway!) you are bound to miss some of the story.

Happy Valentines Day to all you out there in CM land.

She is out there.

One would think with 12000 sub-missives out there on CM, maybe 100 in the LA area, one would at least like to meet up to play a bit.  Enjoy the tug and tight grip of the rope. Enjoy the slight spank across the bare bottom.  Lifting the plaid skirt she pleads thru her gag...

One would think...

Will she come forward?  Are her demands too high? Am I not tall, dark, or rich enough? Am I not the sugar daddy she really seeks instead of a Gentle Dom who will put her in her place where she really is safe?

When will the one step up (or kneel down) and actually answer, carry on a decent conversation, move away from the games, the topping from the bottom?  

Is it possible?

She....is out there.

Are you that she?

Why does it seem when someone on here uses the words 'fakes' or 'flakes' seem to be one themselves?   A red flag to me is after a few lines of email exchange and the person tells me they are not fake...yet disappear...?  Do fakes poof? 

Looking for the real ones to step forward.  Always game.

I have been pleased with the kind responses that many sub-missives have granted me so far.

Honestly I have no agenda.  It sounds cliche but it really all begins with a solid friendship.  Trust is built then who knows...

Ty you to those of you who actually respond to an email...its lovely, really.