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Male Dominant, 47, fort wayne, Indiana
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Male Dominant, 50, Palmyra, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 22, New Bedford, Massachusetts
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I really must apologize. This profile is woefully out of date and neglected.
Honestly, CollarMe/Space isn't my favourite site but I still keep a profile here out of curiosity more than anything else.
I notice that the site doesn't update your age automatically when the ol' birthday rolls around. It still says I'm 45 when, in truth, I am only a few months away from being 48.
Relationships/Partners: It's not that I am not open to meeting someone if that should happen easily and naturally but I've had a pretty busy life schedule for a while and that will probably continue for the next few months. So, in a nutshell, if I meet someone and we really impress each other then that's great. But I'm not a chaser by any means.
There are probably a hundred other things I should update as well but those are the things that stood out when I got around to viewing my own profile.
Cheers and I hope you have a wonderful day. :) |
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Soooo...there I was, minding my own business and going through the many messages I tend to receive on here, when I came across the following:
"Wanna cut my balls off?"
That's all. No 'Hiya' or 'Howdydoo', just...um...cutting right to the chase.
I couldn't help but reply with the following:
"Why? Do you owe me a lot of money?"
Some people just astound me. |
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I'm intensely curious:
How can people 'dislike', 'hate', or have Volunteerism as a 'hard limit'?
Are they so completely narcissistic that they not only refuse to help others who are less fortunate but actively dislike the idea of lending some small assistance to their fellow man?
Does it occur to anyone that this may be? why the world is going to hell in a bucket?
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The phrase 'online experience' is an oxymoron.
And it's no coincidence that it contains the word 'moron'.
That is all.
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You know, I've always felt bad for the German people. As long as I can
remember, they've had to deal with the embarrassment and guilt brought
on by Nazism. The German friends and acquaintances that I've had have
dealt with their negative feelings about their own history with grace
and aplomb. I've never failed to be impressed. They hold themselves to
a high standard of education and intelligence. Most I've known speak at
least two languages, English and French being the most prevalent.
I say that to say this: Why can't Americans do the same? Is it still
too close to the events that turned all of the government and most of
the people into goose-stepping automatons that we have yet to deal with
it and find our grace in embarrassment? Or are we simply too ignorant
to be ashamed?
A friend recently wrote a post dealing with the fact that her fellow
Americans seemed to even require pictures on restaurant menus to be
able to order effectively.
Is that our future? Pride in ignorance and an unwillingness to admit collective mistakes?
That is a sad thought. We were once a 'bootstrap' country that would
help you if you asked, would leave you alone if you didn't, and we
prided ourselves on an increasingly broadening educational system that
seemed bent on eradicating? illiteracy and finding ways to provide
higher education to as many as possible. Now people seem proud to 'not
know'.
Go ask ten Americans about Iraq and how they feel about the war. Nearly
all will have a passionate answer. Then ask them to name the prime
minister of Iraq. If at least eight don't look at you blankly, then
come to my house and I'll kiss your ass. Then ask them to speak a few
basic words in any of the Arabic languages; just a simple 'hello' or
'goodbye', nothing complex. If they can do that, I'll fly on my dime to
where you live and kiss your ass.
Change is in your hands people. Don't just watch tv news and attend
school; smarten up, own the global embarrassment that now belongs to
this country, and deal with it gracefully. Come out the other side of
it a wiser and more humble people who are worthy of the respect that
was once yours.
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Dominant, dominant...god damned DOMINANT! It's not feckin' 'dominate', you morons. Dominate is a verb. Verb. Look it up. Fuck. |
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I want to set a
record straight that may or may not even be off kilter. But here we go
anyway:
I'm getting the feeling that many people somehow associate the whole
phenomenon of slashy-speak, doormattery/non-doormattery, gifting (or
not) of submission, and other odd internet inspired things as being
parts of D/s and M/s.
I'm posting this, for the most part, to assure you that while some
of the nouveau internet-spawned D/s and M/s people may use these
things, there is a whole raft of non-internet spawned folks who do D/s
and M/s, in their own personal ways, all the time and don't relate to
these things. I feel at least partially qualified to address this
because I was doing D/s, privately back then, when many of the people
who have profiles on collarme were in junior high (and my own current
slave was in high school but don't hold that against me, LOL).
Therefore, I'm not THE authority but possibly AN authority.
For all I know, it may be the very lettered representations of D/s
and M/s that gave rise to this weirdness. I can assure anyone of the
new, mistaken, or unsure persuasion that these were simply ways to
clear up one's own specialty from the whole of BDSM or (back when)
S&M. For example: B&D or S&M. D/s practitioners in no way
intended to create a form of literary expression based around them.
Don't misunderstand, if D/s activities just don't interest you,
that's fine with me. I truly believe diversity makes the world go
'round. It just bothers me that people may dislike D/s for mistaken
reasons.
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"No criticism of other users, vulgarity, or illegal activities."
But doesn't that pretty much take the fun out of everything? It certainly limits MY repertoire, I'll tell ya that. ;) Jaysus, they may as well put no drinking and no sex to go with.
Forgive me father, for I have sinned. (and I plan on doing it again as soon as I leave the box!)
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Dudes and Dudettes, I hate to break it to y'all right out here in front of everyone but 'online' BDSM is so totally ghey.
I'm shocked and appalled by the number of people on here who just want to cyber. Fuck, just go buy some porn and wear it out. Don't bother the rest of us.
And I don't want to hear that shite about "Well, I have to be discreet." or "I'm learning how to dom/sub online so that I'm ready for real life." Bullshit.
The former just means that your wife/husband/mom/dad/priest/boss or whomever won't let you and you don't have the stainless steel primary sex characteristics to do what you really want.
The latter is like saying you learned how to be a Special Forces operator by playing video games. It's a load.
Let's all try to look at the internet like the Amish look at the modern world and be ON the internet but not OF it. |
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Well, with $4 a gallon gasoline the issue du jour, it looks like it's time for me to build another motorcycle. So...here's where you all come in: I've got a 1966 BSA A65 Lightning that is begging to be built up as a cafe racer and I've got most of a '60s Triumph 650 that would make a great mild chop or even a bobber. A real one, not what some people think are bobbers nowadays. So which one should I think about building? And yes, I made this post partially in hopes that it may give those of you who just write 'wanna message sometime' something else to talk about. LOL
Oh, and the first one of you to mention Harley gets a boot in the ass. What do I look like to you? A dentist? An accountant? No Harleys until the great unwashed give up on them and go back to Japanese where they came from.
I decided to put a Harley addendum in here to clear things up. Yes, I believe that modern 'kit' Harleys are pretty much for RUBs and girls but if we're talking any knuckle or pan, or if you built it yourself, whatever it is, then no offense meant and you're good in my book. Though if you're also one of those guys, I find it hard to believe you give a rat's ass what I think. LOL
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"OOOOOO BABY! You make me...wanna WALK...like a camel!" |
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Hey, if anyone who stops by the ol' profile has some hot tips on good, local rockabilly, alt-country, alternative, gothy, or other off-the-beaten track shows coming up, shoot me an email. I've been wicked busy with work and other stuff lately, have been totally out of the loop and would love to go see something cool. Hell, I haven't even had time to read the Press so you know how 'in the dark' I must be by now. lol
Thanks,
BD |
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It's frightening to me to imagine that many of you are as simple-minded as you seem in your profiles. Text can be a very limiting medium and I'm going to continue to assume that it has limited many of you.
Do you really think that 24/7 means actively doing sm play or scening all that time?! No one does that. I promise.
I'm 24/7 and have been since before you all had computers and dsl. You can trust me on this.
It actually means maintaining your D/s relationship dynamic all the time, not playing all the time.
Class is over for now but I have the feeling that the more profiles I read, the more I'll be back here with more advice from the Big Daddy. ;) |
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Right up front: this is stolen from someone else, I just can't remember who. But I love this joke and it's an excellent way to...well...express a niche point of view. LOL
Three labrador retrievers are sitting in the waiting room at the veterinarian. They start talking, as one does, about the reasons for their respective visits.
The golden lab says, "Man, I got caught tearing up the living room upholstery so now my owners think I'm too fiesty. I'm here to get neutered."
The chocolate lab responds, "I feel for you. They say I'm too aggressive and bark too much at everything. I'm here to get my balls done too."
At that point, they both turn to the black lab and ask why he is there. The black lab replies by telling them, "Well, I was feeling a bit randy the other night so when my owner stepped out of the shower, I put my paws on her shoulders, mounted, and took her from behind."
So the other labs resignedly ask in unison, "So you're here to get your balls cut off too, huh?"
"Nah", the black lab replies, "I'm here to have my nails done."
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