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About betweenthecracks
In many ways, since I've been on and off this site for years, I've fallen between the cracks in regards to D/s and BDSM. I'm really not sure where I belong (in terms of actually being with someone) and in all actuality, being on this site has made it MUCH worse.
A few things. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN "THIS WAY". I had to get that out of the way. I can't tell you how many messages I get with "so how did you know you were submissive", "tell me when you decided on being submissive" and that sort of fuckery. The fact is, I was probably BORN submissive and it was further engrained when I started becoming sexually active. It is just a big a part of me as my eyesight, hands, etc. and it's nothing I all of a sudden decided to be over a weekend one day or after a spanking or two. And if I'm describing you, hey that's cool I don't judge. I just wanted to get "why I am" out of the way.
I don't leave the house in a leather clad corset. I actually live a fairly vanilla day to day. Even though I'm not all dressed up as many a porno movie has depicted us D/s folk, I am accustomed to wearing what I call an invisible leash. To all those who DO in fact live and breathe the lifestyle 24/7 that's awesome and I really admire you, but it isn't for me. Well, not at this point.
Master. Mistress. Sir. Ma'am. You really need my reassurance? By no means do I mean disrespect so please don't take it as such. I never understood why I or really any submissives are DEMANDED to address in that manner? I understand if it comes from a submissive or slave heart, but does addressing a Dominant as such make them EVEN more Dominant. Now don't get me wrong. When I do meet a Dom/me I call them Sir or Ma'am. I know right? What a contracting bitch.
Poly households-they work, period having been a part of one. That being said, it doesn't mean that's what I'm looking for now soley. The issue is this. I don't want to be anyone's experiment or starter girl. Many couples toss around the thought of having another girl join them and there are Doms (Men seem to be more prone to this) that WANT to start a home without really knowing what their in for. Poly, if you are not prepared for it, can cause a lot of strain on the the home and effect the prior relationship. I think it's great that many want to open their home to the idea of another and involve them in their D/s relationship. My advice there would be start with a local person and see how it goes maybe on a part time basis, weekends, then move to weeks,etc before coming on here and trying to find a permanent situation. Learn to swim without your waterwings BEFORE jumping into the deep end.
END RANT.
So, what am I doing here? What's the point of all this?...I can't believe you're still reading this.
I am very much looking for my completion. I YEARN to serve. I ACHE to learn. Most of all, I'm tired of being lost and wandering. I take a lot of pride in service and know the feeling of a job well done and it honors me to know it is recognized. I very much enjoy knowing my Dominant is happy and happy WITH me. I'm NOT skinny. I'm NOT obese. I'm by no means stupid or have loads of cash. I do however, have a fire that burns deep. When I close my eyes and see myself on that invisible leash and feel that tight tug, it's a feeling of happiness that comes over me.
Thank you for reading and listening.
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Nothing sexier than a man with a gun...
Maybe a man with a whip, perhaps? |
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Nothing beats a cup of coffee and left over spaghetti at 8:22 am.
I fell asleep fairly early last night and I woke up this morning with thoughts of pony girls. When I started having interest in this lifestyle, that's the first aspect that caught my attention. I think little puppies, ponies, and even the cows and piggies are cute, but there is something about the ponies that are much more...elegant?
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Morning ramblings of a frustrated, lonely, subbie.
I don't know what's worse. Having my head in the clouds or almost getting in an accident this morning? I know I shouldn't be so concerned about finding my One but I am. It would be great if EHarmony or Match had an adult section instead of my having to deal with influx or stupidity this site brings.
DOES ANYONE REALLY WANT SOMETHING SOLID?
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I really miss being called "my girl"sometimes... |
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You know, I can't believe I ACTUALLY have to write this:
Yes, I am serious. No, I am not a fake. No, I will not send you naked pictures of me and yes I really am a girl and from the United States.
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