BeteNoir

The key to me is total power exchange in all forms. I love the whole package. What may be strange to some, but ingrained in me, is that it makes little difference in which direction the exchange goes. I can, and do, keep a female submissive quite happy even though we will never switch because of her interests, yet as much as I enjoy topping a woman I also enjoy giving up power to someone else, or switching. It is so basic, that even though I am straight, I will submit to both males and females so long as they understand power exchange like I do.

It is fun, exhilirating and a great release. Part of the pleasure is in my giving pleasure. The intensity is fabulous. Hard, tight, inescapable bondage is a platform that just sweeps you away for a while.

I am in a commited relationship so if your interest is a commitment, I am probably not who you are looking for. That does not exclude long-term relationships, just not commitments (believe me it works). Where else but on a bdsm board could you say this and be understood? Whatever.

I am attractive, fit, smart and easy to get along with. Hope to meet some of you. Not interested in cyber, mostly enjoy r/l meeting. G'day.