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I think of myself as a rubenesque woman .... Not "plus size" just real! I am slimming a bit now : ) And have always enjoyed edgy, tantalizing sex. So I am open to giving to the right man.....who is HE?  Dom, switch, sub??? A person is multifaceted. I am sexual and sensual, feline, adoring, lil.......and more.   I have hesitated to put a photo here.  knowing some would judge a book by its cover... However, here is Betty, at least what the eye perceives..   (no makeup, no frills)    A submissive soul, who finds pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive. she is not weak, or stupid, she is a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what she wants out of life. she does not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength. Her submission is a gift that she does not give lightly, and can only be given to one who can cherish that gift and return it tenfold. Only to He who has that strength will she give herself fully, because she is strong and proud. After all, she is a submissive soul. she looks for a Master's loving guidance, protection and training, for never is she more complete than when she is with Him. she knows that he will protect her body, her mind, and her soul, with his strength, wisdom and understanding. He is everything to her, as she is everything to him. His touch awakens her senses, and his thoughts free her mind. Only in serving him, does she find complete freedom and joy, and the beauty of her submissive soul. With a fiery spirit. You could be the right man if you understand what you have read and might want to cherish this submissive/switch......B

4/25/2017 9:24:23 PM The Truth About Kinky Women. Re blogging: This was written in response to a FETLIFE post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties. You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful. Let me ask you something: Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?” Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”? Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?” Every time you post on here (FETLIFE) asking for people to “help you out,” that’s exactly what you’re doing. You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you. Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them. Kinky women are not whores Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.) Kinky women are not easy Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different. Kinky women are not objects Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters. Kinky women have feelings Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference? The Truth About Kinky Women by Septimus1812 is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License.