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About BetaMaleSlave
I guess there is a fine line between fantasy and reality. Sometimes its easy to tell. These are our hard limits. However there is a distinct gray area between the two. The TPE is one of these gray areas for me. I envision being completely and utterly controlled, having absolutely no free will of my own. And the concept is a incredible yet unlikely turn on. However, allowing someone to control particular, if not most, aspects of my life while maintaining the illusion that they control everything is much more plausible. Theres something enormously exciting about relinquishing any and all power to an authoritative female, provided its all part of an amusement for both. Of course, in this context its all about her or as I see it at least a 90 -- 10 contract.
I started out as a switch, but now that I am older I have an increasing longing to submit. Now it is my greatest desire to make it all about HER pleasure. I have been intrigued by male chastity of late.
I imagine a situation where chastity is strict and stringently enforced. I have noticed that Ladies who practice this ritual tend to attach a number of days to the denial of a males orgasm. I envision a goal of a particular number of orgasms for the lady, for instance 10 to 1 12 to 1 or even 20 to 1 ratio. I believe this would enhance her experience significantly. Consider a male who, if he pers adequately, is allowed to climax every seven to ten days he will do just that, per adequately. However, a goal he might be able to reach sooner by trying harder to please and will therefore be more attentive. The male would earn his climaxes through effort and hard work rather than having them dispensed at regular intervals. If the number is ten maybe he could earn that in a few days if hes attentive and convincing enough, or in a few weeks if his lady is uninterested or unable to see him because of family or work obligations.Just the idea of kneeling obediently before a woman before being allowed to provide her countless orgasms while I am assured of nothing but a whoopin if I misstep is an incredibly erotic notion. And its one that I hope to realize one day.
Enforcing the chastity condition is an interesting and attention-grabbing element of the FemDom Ds relationship. The honor system is a good start because it leaves room for punishment in the event of a transgression. However, the chastity device also holds a certain appeal because of its assuredness. Its decisiveness leaves no room for misbehavior and might be necessary for long periods of time between climaxes. I have no experience here but it remains at the forefront of my visualizations of a perfect relationship.
Another aspect of the chastity condition is cuckoldry. I can envision being left home naked and alone, with a list of chores a mile long while my lady goes out with her friends. Maybe she has a date or even a boyfriend. This is an additional facet to the chastity condition that is appealing and could possibly (or definitely) be explored. However I am not bi and would not wish to participate in the activity just being present under the same roof, or even knowing about it, would be humiliation enough. Its something Id be willing to explore should my lady so desire.
I am not a pain slut by any means. I am a submission slut. But I do entertain the idea of being caned or beaten with a belt until I am on the verge of tears and quite possibly beyond. Being chained, caged, shackled or bound at the will of my lady is also a thirst that needs to be quenched.
Sure Im a pervert. Who isnt? Im the kind of pervert who wants to fall in love with my Lady. This is a love that would act as an indenture that would bind me to her mind and spirit, not just carnally. Do you think such a relationship could ever be realized?
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