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BendingGender

Male Submissive, 50, San Diego, California
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About BendingGender

I am in search of answers.

I am here to learn. To explore. To find myself. And perhaps in time... to find another.

Born into a female form, I've come to find that I've a body that does not jive with the contents of my mind.

I find that I'm more comfortable dressing and behaving in ways that are most often considered more masculine in nature.

Other factors, such as sexuality and levels of interest in certain sexual acts, have also been factored into the equation.

More and more I begin to speculate that something went awry in utero. An extra splash of hormones here... a dash of hormones there. Something, in that chemical soup, probably didn't belong.

As I journey forward, trying to understand what these new realizations all mean, I welcome communication from all walks of life.

Gender, age, orientation and location are of no consequence to me in terms of meeting new people and making friends.

I do ask that people making contact do so using proper English. Or at least English that doesn't make me crazy. (For example, chat speak is a turn-off.)

* Photo upon request.

The search for permanent housing is officially over. Now I endeavor to turn this land into a functional, partially self-sufficient farm. The fowl are on their way. There's talk of acquiring a sow, and subsequently inseminating her. And the alpaca are busily turning grass into gas -- and potential fertilizer!

 

I'm working on my writing in the spare time I do have, but I am also still motivated to make new friends and perhaps find a play partner or two.

 

Riveting, I know. But at least it's an update. :)

I've made it to Washington. I've settled into an apartment temporarily as I search for a house and some land. Things are a bit hectic around here, and I'm not online too often at the moment. However, I still welcome mail from anyone interested in making contact. And I'll get back to you as quickly as I am able, schedule permitting.

I'm presently living in California, but I am working to relocate to Washington (the state, not the city). I do not yet know where I'll be settling beyond that. I'll know more once I've gone and checked out properties up north.

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