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beatnikbynight

Firstly before you read further, please be aware that although I am looking for a long term relationship down the road i am not opposed to making friends and meeting people who would like to talk hang out or play, but chemistry is everything.

hello all. i've been on this site previously with some success, now however i feel that due in large part to my experiences as a result of my previous profiles i am in a far better position to more accurately describe what i'm looking for. firstly i should say that i am, or well more accuratley, i have been a submissive for the last 10 years. i have been involved in several BDSM relationships in a submissive role and i have discovered that i am certainly submissive and i certainly appreciate a dominant woman, however i am looking to explore something new in addition.
i am looking for dominant women or switches with experience or a sumbissive female with experience or just starting out someone with whom i could explore my embryonic dominant side. i should qualify however that i am not looking for an individual whose life and social habits fail to fall out side of the BDSM community. i have a wide range of interests and consider my self somewhat well rounded and equally as intelligent, i don't wish to sound snooty because i am not, but only wish to demonstrate my desire not to be involved with somone who can't or won't engage in the world in which we exist outside of BDSM in a more humble, open fashion.
i enjoy conversation, reading, movies, and sports, i write poetry and fiction, and i love learning and meeting people. my ideal situation would be a relationship with a woman who is confident and comfortable with her sexuality and desires as well as with her body and position in life. a woman who is willing to explore life inside and outside a BDSM relationship, a woman who doesn't take herself too seriously but is very much aware of who she is, where she comes from , and where she wants to go, in love, in life, and in fun but also looks forward to the inevitable curve balls life heaves around and is willing and able to adapt to a variety of life situations. i consider myself open minded and i would like to meet an open minded woman. i want more than anything i suppose is a woman who is eventually (if everything works out) willing to grow and experience life with me and share life experiences in an effort to become better partners, lovers, and people. i know this sounds serious but i am a fun loving guy and well i think i'm funny and i get along with almost anyone. here are my top attribute i look for in a women in no particular order.
1. confidance
2. open mindedness
3 comfort with their body and with the person they are
4. intelligence
5. sense of humor
6. passion

well i guess that sums that up. i feel that i have more to offer than the completely dry ultra ordinary description you may have just read so please drop me a message and i would be more than happy to bring the real me to the more human me to the equation.
2/4/2007 6:35:19 PM
hi there, I hope to have a more current pic up soon.
avarye
 
 Age: 29
 Vancouver, Canada