7/13/2009 1:36:45 AM: Why dearjohn ?Well that is because i am not expecting to get anywhere on here really, those reading this and or my profile, if You understand what a dear john letter was, You'll likely also understand where i am coming from.There are a lot of subs out there in PC land all wanting something, so because of my age and also limitations, i am not stupid enough to think there will Ever be any kind of cue of Dommes wanting to be bothered with me, or indeed wanting anything to do with me other than sending a reply saying i am of no use to Them, hence the name - dearjohn !Those of You too young to under stand the meaning of a dear john letter, it was used during the second world war, by a lot of women to say good bye to there husbands and boyfriends who were serving abroad at the time, a very cruel way of saying good bye, i have found someone else.Being dumped by post if You will.So those are the main reasons behind the name i choose to use on here.