***Update - 05-21-17***

Damn!  It's been three years since I last updated anything!  It's been a fun/stressful three years.  It's had its ups and downs.  The last two were kind of downs as I didn't have much time for play....or any time really.

I have just gotten myself a new submissive!  Sweet young man, lots of potential!  Welcome to you newsubboi4F! We are very much in the getting to know you phase, but it looks good, very good!

***Update - 03/03/12***

I'm looking for a long term relationship.  I'm not looking to meet you in the next hour, or the next day or for the next week.  If you are not prepared or willing to start something long tern, I would suggest you move on to someone else.

Please be willing to get to know me as a person, find out what I like and what I'm about, as I will do with you. 

If you are married or in a relationship....I would suggest you find someone else or hire a pro....I've done my time as "the other Woman" or "the one that can fulfill your need that your partner doesn't get about you".  I'm done with that.

It's time for me to look out for myself and what I want and need.  I'm still looking for a service sub or slave, a sex sub or slave and a female.  Just need to find the right combination of people to complete my "family".

 Ms. Carla

***Update - 01.25.11***

Time for an update!

It's been 8 years (going on 9) since I started on my journey in the realm for BDSM and what a journey it's been!  I have met some of the most incredible people and have had some wonderful times.  Oh the asses I have beaten!  Such joy for me and pain for them!

As it's a new year, it's time to embark on a few new adventures.  I think this year I'm going to start looking for a female sub/slave.  I've never had one of those before.  I don't know how it will work out, but it should be fun in the process!  Watch out ladies.....I'm on the prowl!!!!!!!!!

Another new adventure I've started on is that I have a sub/slave that is now my "wife".  I never thought I would have a wife, but it is a wonderful thing!  Where this will lead us in the future, no one can say, but he is a wonderful person and I'm looking forward to this new chapter!

***Update - 06/01/2010***

It's been 8 years now! WOW! How time flys when you're spanking ass....oops.....having fun! Wait! They're the same thing! ;-)

Still spanking and a whole lot more! Every year I find that I want to add more and more to my repetoire! Spanking, cbt, bondage, chastity, body worship.....

Now I'm looking to add extreme spanking, play pierceing....a bit more of an edge to things!

And as you can see from my journal, I still love my sissies! LOVE 'EM!

Not to say that I don't love my "vanilla" moments, because I do! I'm still looking for an equal balance.

Help me find it!***



Mistress looking for someone to spank! Maybe more....that depends on what you have to offer me in the way of service.

I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for about four years now, so I still think I'm a newbie, but I learn fast and love to experiment.

No Scat, knifeplay.  All other activities are negotiable.

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Update - 05/27/2007:
I am adding "Submissive Trans" to my seeking section.  I am also thinking of adding "Submissive Female" too.  I have always considered myself "Straight", but the more I'm in the lifestyle, the more I find my horizons starting to broaden!