Please read my profile.
Stupid(!) messages from people who obviously didn't will get deleted. 
Very stupid ones will have their sender blocked.
Yes, this is harsh, but you can't imagine how many mails I get on here.

 Profile updated: 01/13/11 

I am a 19 year old woman from Germany who just started studying theoretical linguistics in Frankfurt (Germany). You can write to me in English, Spanish and of course German – I am currently and very slowly learning català and euskera, if you speak one of these languages: I'd love to practice! But as I said, I'm learning slowly, so let's just try that in a few months :p
As I am in a relationship (vanilla), I am not interested in any kind of slave (online or real) or in meeting someone. At least not immediately, if we get to know each other well on here and I like you, we can maybe meet up for coffee. I love coffee. Maybe you ask yourself now: "No slaves, no meeting? What the hell do you want then?" – well, that is easy, even though many people just don't get it. I'm just looking for people to talk to, be it about BDSM or anything else. That's why I put "Friends only" in the "actively seeking" box. I also checked "submissive men" because I'd be interested in talking to them, but nothing more. I also got many messages that said "I'm x years old, do you still want to talk to me?" – why not? I don't care about how old you are. If you're old enough to grasp the concept of "Friends only", it'll be perfectly fine for me.
What more can I tell you about me. I am not a pro domme and I won't even take your money/presents if you offer them to me. And I really don't like watching you masturbate in video chat. Most of the times it's really disgusting, especially when I'm not prepared for that sight. It's also important that you know that I don't have any experience as a domme so far. In general, I'd rather call myself a sadist as inflicting pain and getting to see the "results" does much more for me than giving orders. I'm not into anything too extreme though. I also used to be a sub, tried it for a few weeks and decided it's not what I'm looking for. And no, I don't want to make any better experiences with any of you.
In the earlier version of my profile I used to list my non-BDSM interests first, but as I'm writing about the topic right now I will just put the BDSM stuff here. Remember, no experience so far! This is merely a list of things I'd like to try: Blindfolds, Bondage, "Breast play", CBT, Cages, Collars, Eye Contact Restrictions, Ass Play, Begging, Tickling and as I said, many kinds of pain. This list is probably not complete, just a few things i could think of. Just as the next list, the "Things I don't want to hear about ever": Fire play, Medical play, CDs (I don't hate CDs or TVs. I just don't find it appealing.), Diapers, Electrical Play, Foot Worship (I REALLY hate feet.), Gas Masks, Hoods, Hypnosis, Knife Play, Masks, Needle Play, Public,...
 As I'm just a small town girl, living in a lonely world – I mean, I'm kind of young and have vivid imagination – I also like to fantasize about certain men (I'll never have them, though. But a girl can dream AND OH YES I DO.). If you already looked into my journal, you may have noticed that a lot of squeeeing currently is over the sexiness that is Matthew Gray Gubler. His fuckability level is over 9000. He is well dressed even though most of the time he looks like a huge fucking hipster, but he can take me to Starbucks to hang out with our iPhones twittering about facebook anytime (I don't hate hipsters either, btw.). And I'd switch for that man.. but first, I'd try to break him LOL. Next up would be Joseph Gordon-Levitt, whose awesomeness was just recently discovered by overdosing on 500 Days of Summer and Inception. He's one hot fucker in a suit. I also like Alessandro Cortini (ex-synth player of Nine Inch Nails). He has the bestest accent ever. I like Italians. I like men that still look good with long, weird hair. And them geeks. And David Tennant as Doctor Who combines two of my biggest fetishes: suits & glasses. Unfortunately, they got a replacement for him :(. Gale Harold was sexy in Queer as Folk. I like male homosexuality :D esp. with hot guys involved. And, someone you very probably don't know: Alex Reed, member of Pittsburgh goth band ThouShaltNot. He looks so innocent I want to corrupt him. Please let me. Thanks. All of the above have nice voices, too. Theyd probably all sound good screaming in pain, yes? 
Now, let's go to the last part: non-BDSM interests. I like reading (in English and Spanish), I really like Lorca's plays. I enjoy good movies (mostly movies nobody knows, and yes, that is very hipster but I also like OMG MAINSTREAM MOVIES). I don't own a TV, by the way. When it comes to music, I like Industrial, Ska, Punk, Rock and Electronica. My iTunes is a mix of weird shit. And my life basically is linguistics, I love learning new language and traveling to foreign countries to get to speak them.
You may have noticed that there is no longer a secret word to add to your messages. I found out that having one doesn't change much, so I'll just be a lot bitchy when it comes to messages.