NEW UPDATE:

Thanks to the kindness of strangers and a few sweet friends, I'm feeling better about myself and have a renewed interest in getting out and meeting people. Please contact me if you're interested!  Take care, now.

UPDATE:
I want to apologize to the many wonderful people here that have taken the time to write to me.  I'm afraid i've come off like some sort of cyber-teaser, since i've only managed to actually meet one or two of you face-to-face.  The truth is, i'm very insecure about my looks and for the last six months or so, i've been unable to overcome my fears that i'd be disappointing to meet with in person.  I'm trying to change my attitude, but i don't know how long that will take.  I'm still very interested in meeting people.  But i wanted all of you to know that it's my own fears that are keeping me housebound. I'm not just a pretender. Thanks again for your kind attention.


Mature, but rather young-looking rocknroller, artistic, sensitive, kinky,sweet and submissive, but can also be dominant in the right situation. Married, but my partner has lost interest in sex of any sort.

I like art, theater, good food, wine, good movies, playing blues and rock on guitar and sax. Also like humiliation, bondage, crossdressing, costumes, roleplay, ageplay, and submission. Verbal abuse, orgasm control, genital control. I also create erotic art.