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LadyFlutterby
Hetero Female Dominant, 44, Tacoma, Washington US 
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LadyFlutterby

No you may not call me Mistress.  I don't do online, or cam. I will NOT answer chat requests. For those who won't read the journal entry...I am in a relationship, do not message me for anything but friendship...no play, sex, or anything havig to do with D/s. Doing so will get you blocked. I am not available for anything but friendship, period.

 

And now for something completely different...

For those who don't want to read the novel on my profile: I'm a short, baby faced, warped, evil, twisted, downright sick, irreverent, blasphemous, brutally honest, kinky bitch with a penchant for the absurd and a demented sense of humor. You've been warned.

In the realm of D/s, I need to have a power exchange with someone, I need to have that level of responsibility, care, and stewardship. Within that dynamic, levels of power ebb and flow, depending on the people involved and their needs/limits. I truly enjoy my role as a mentor, leader, caretaker, friend, and evil bitch. ;)  I have had experiences with poly. It doesn't mean I always have to be in a poly relationship, but it means I am able to, and do, love different ways within the D/s dynamic.  I prefer to focus my energy on one partner, but depending on the circumstances and the person, poly is an option for both parties if there are needs that have to be fulfilled outside the relationship.

I volunteer in my local community, vanilla and otherwise. I champion causes that help animals and children. As a former co-owner/moderator of a BDSM/lifestyle group, I volunteered many hours to help bring lifestyle opportunities to people and to help encourage cooperation between groups.

 

If you are dishonest, homophobic, play games, manipulate, are shallow, just want to get laid, cause drama, are passive aggressive, are looking for a service top, or think all women are submissive, you will be sorely disappointed. All deal breakers for me in any respect.

I do what I do because I like people. I enjoy creating a wonderful experience, that is my high when I play. If you can't let go and have fun, if you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along well. If you can't handle blunt honesty, you won't last long around me.

I'm always willing to learn, so please feel free to share, and I'll do the same. It's always nice to add a new person to my kink friends/family!

1/31/2013 10:59:30 AM: I am seeking friends only, and I already have plenty of those.  Please do not message me seeking play or more...doing so will get you blocked.

11/1/2012 4:20:05 PM: Another bullet dodged.  I swear, it's like I'm wearing a sign..

7/16/2012 10:32:27 PM: I've been told that sometimes I'm a bit harsh, and so I've made an effort to be nicer, especially to newbies, who may screw up when contacting me, but don't know better.  I will still make that effort; however, due to a stalker, and some creepy guy who followed me, I will be a lot less likely to share personal details of any kind until I get to know someone quite well.  It's sad that the douchebags out there make it tougher on the good folks, but self preservation is pretty important.  I don't care if you are the nicest person on earth with a security clearance the FBI would be proud of, I'm not going to be very forthcoming with personal details, etc. until such time as I feel comfortable doing so.  That includes f*tlife friendship requests, pictures, or yahoo.    

7/14/2012 3:41:22 PM: Pretty excited for the tasting party tonight...if you're going to be there, stop by for a taste of fire!  Of course, I might have the wand handy too...

7/13/2012 11:30:33 PM: I'm starting to really like this place...beautiful summer, even a thunderstorm or two...and soon the little 'play room' will be ready.   :)

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