I enjoy women. I love their bodies and minds and the way they think. I enjoy talking with them over a coffee, drink or meal.

Im an educated professional, looking to share my life and my kink with someone. I find that most of life is better when you share!



I am interested in building an ongoing, even long term friendship with a woman that includes exploring BDSM and Ds in a playful, yet intense way. I stress being friends because of the of care and trust element involved with being friends that translates well to a kink relationship. While I seek a play partner, mighttherebe a long-term relationship one day? That can never be ruled out, but is something that may develop over time. In fact, my goal would be to find that special lady, but that is a process. Let us start it together.

I am an intelligent complex guy. Dominant in everyday life, gentle, loving, fierce, but submissive at heart and thats not all. All those things are sexual and do not include many other parts that make me the man I am. I love women who have a certain self-knowledge and capacity for self-analysis. A true strong woman does not need to tell or show it, those close to her just know. I would hope that she understands herself and knows what she is looking for. I am looking for someone who recognizes my worth. After all, if you dont think I have anything to offer, then why would I want to pursue a relationship of any sort? I dont want someone who wants me to kneel just because they cant stand upright alone.



I will trust you not to take me beyond my real limits, yet at the same time I realize that you may try to expand my boundaries just a bit. On the flip side, you may trust me to be truthful with you, whether about my current level of discomfort or about what is going on in my life. Perhaps expand our experiences and boundries together.



It is one of the great truths that I have discovered about BDSM play that a relationship is most fulfilling when you find someone who wants to play the same way you do. SoIm not looking for anyone be a door mat, pain slut or ATM, everything else is open to negotiation. I wont present a list of my fetishes, as I am sure you find them pretty standard. Also because fetish preferences are to be mutually enjoyed so we might come to enjoy what the other enjoys.

Lets talklet me get to know you, and see what I can bring to your life that you dont already have!