I am neither submissive nor am I dominant, and Im not looking to be used or treated like a slave, and Im not into hookups or one night stands. Mostly right now Im looking for people to talk to that wont try taking advantage of me. I and my mate are polyamorous, though since we live with his family who have very judgmental tendencies we are discreet around them

If anyone does wish to chat and such, I have snap chat, Discord and kik, though I will not do a video chat with anyone until I have talked with them for quite some time. As in weeks amounts of time. Dont press it. Im cautious and I like my privacy to be respected. Im tired of being disrespected. All anyone need do is ask for my username for any of the above mentioned accounts, and I will give it.

Just because I am on this website does not mean not a person. Im not out just to get laid, thus talking of sex and kinks before knowing anything else will get you nowhere. Plain and simple. Im a writer, a gamer and formerly an artist.

I happen to have limits that cannot be pushed or broken, as my life literally depends on some of them for medical reasons. Im disabled physically, and I take care of my fiances grandmother, which is why we were asked to move in with them is because she needs around the clock care, so if I sometimes am slow to respond, this is likely why as I get called away often.