It is maybe giving ideas to a Woman who may take an interest in me as sub or slave, but the way smartphones gives a Domme possibilities to control and monitor Her sub or slave, is just the way i would want to have my privacy invaded.

There are apps for parental control which can easily serve to monitor in a Ds relationship. Many apps for both smartphones and PC's, even free, typically offers Monitor every keystroke and every tap,
Read a slaves social media chats, see where it has been and where it is are going, control its written texts - including deleted messages, see who it has called, see the pics s share and receive and see what it has searched for
or block its access to any og this. Geofencing is another efficient control - get alarm if it moves away or into places off limit.

Spy in on its phone and PC without being detected 24/7 - give orders without warning and without being blocked - and Your slave will know You can spy inn without him knowing.

These apps are available for both pc and smartphones, just google.

Then it can be under order to always have the device placed to monitor him on the cam, when working, in bedroom, driving etc, and Owner can verify correct clothing, underwear and chastity device in place, etc.

Since some time back i have increasingly felt the need to belong to and serve two Women, bi or lesbian. As can be seen from my likes and other journal entries, i list a variety of kinks but those are just for info. I have no strong wishes for any particular kink, except my need to serve, learn to serve and obey having experienced the hard way that punishments are for real and hurts to provoke tears.

If You are a Woman who want control in Your home, likes discipline and is possessive, short tempered and want an obedient male, then please take me for a test drive. This may not necessarily include bdsm or kink, it can actually be very vanilla like as lifestyle, except that i am Your owned slave 24-7 with mainly domestic duties and no say, just contractually committed to You as my owner. In such a variation of vanilla, caning, whipping, scolding, humiliation and mental bondage etc is within the normal to me. To the outside i will just appear pussywhipped, spineless, henpecked and a maybe a cuck, and You will not hold back on talking me down in public. Who hasnt observed couples where the male is humiliated by a wife who isnt mincing Her words, and to me therefore within normality.

I would feel utterly embarrased and humiliated in such situations, but also extremely aroused.

Being controlled in invasive ways, will also give me a kind of security as it will give me rules and limits, and as a couple it will also build stability as i am committed to obey and not talk back or discuss, and You have control of household economy, papers and important paperwork. Your right to whip me is backed up by You controlling my life, leaving me access to only a bit pocketmoney that i have to keep documented, and only spend on useful and approved items. 

If You like manipulating our male into Your grips that is what i hope for. To feel the drag in Your mental leash as You lead me deeper into submission, consensually in the beginning, then at some point confront me with the reality that i am Your owned property as You have made me sign slave contracts, videoptaped compromising situations etc.

"It is often safer to be in chains than to be free !" - Franz Kafka

This sums it all up - at least for me !!

I seek the comfort and safety of submitting - being led, having to adapt and be molded and kept in mental bondage reinforcing my servile demeanor.

The term Mental Bondage may involve many different techniques on different practical and mental levels, from suble influencing to intense pressure, also physical torturelike softening of the submissive to make it receptive and accept the Ds process it is consensually exposed to. Combined with hypnotic techniques with invading forced listening to Your voice  through earbuds  with hypnotic soothing repeating mesmerizing messages.I am very accepting for being mentally experimented on to fidelize me as Your slave.

I am very interested in comments with info when such practices systematically are used for real over time. I have not yet been exposed to such treatment on a long term permanent basis locking me into the process without possibility to leave, but the idea intensely excites me. I want to learn and feel real pressure to comply - starting the process consensually, and then at some point - no way out ..... 

Seeking a long term serious comitted relationship, incorporating regular discipline and any kink that exites You -
or no kink and no sex if You only want to own, use and educate me as your domestic chaste service slave and deprive me of sexual pleasures.

I have a kink for oral pleasing, and love it when strapped on a bed face up and my owner riding my face to rub her hairy cunt on her juices flowing over my face until she comes - drowning my face and filling my mouth in gushes from Her orgasms. Then leave me there strapped and gagged until she again get the urge to rub her dripping cunt on my face - cathetered for draining my pee for long term weekend strapping. 

A Domme interested in experimenting with electric TENS stunning to add to the efficiency of my education and mental bondage process, will have free hands to exlpore limits. A chastity cage with urethral tube wired with a tens stunning remote control, in combination with a buttplug electrode, to give pain without warning, can reinforce mental reprogramming and instill respect. My naked bum in the photo lends itself very well to real discipline as I actually is not a painslut, and unless gagged, will beg for mercy when the beating is for real - easily provoking tears if the continued. I am NOT seeking pain, but being disciplined and forced to comply and submit.

My main kink is being forced and not be in a position to present opposition, or not dare to oppose. Humiliation by forced feminization and forced crossdressing arouses me very much. So a Domme who want to turn me into a trans should find me as a blank canvas to express Her creativity.

The kinky scenarious above are in no way a important wishes from my side, only a peek into my kinky ideas - it this gives you ideas, all the more interesting. I will be more than happy as a male domestic slave locked up in chastity, filling my day with boring housework routines.

If You are a pan, bi or lesbian Woman, and-or older and taller than my 171 cm, You are strongly invited to steamroll into my real life, take over and adapt me to the lifestyle You need me as a useful emasculated male.