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Hetero Male Submissive, 61,  Scandinavia, Sweden
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I am a sub man who is well experienced in housework, seeking a Domme that can make use of me in Her household relieving Her of dull and timeconsuming household chores.

My skills as household repairman is also quite good, and i am creative if You need bdsm-tools and furniture made. i am also good at massaging, feet, pussy whorshipping.

As for sex, and cuckolding, i am not presenting a wishlist here as that will be for You to decide. As slave it is not proper for me to present a wishlist, the interest I list is just for info.

i am afraid of pain, but still i get excited with the thought of being punished until tears flow, in restraints and not being able to prevent it. I am not really into pain, mental domination is what excites me - but with unpleasant punishments as a very real motivation tool.
So I actually welcome a Woman who think physical punishments are an important part of building real submission, mental acceptance and behavioral adaption.

A bi Domme with clear Femdom-beliefs will match my sub personality very well, i would love serving and butlering several Women, and also like to be trained as Your hairdresser, makeupper, foot and hand massaging and general grooming. I need a Woman as a guiding force in my life, to give me purpose and direction.

In short, i am definitely best suited as a male wife, and would like to live under a Woman that likes me emasculated and deflating my little male ego. Very fine if You outpower me also in size and physical strength.

Hopefully You will want a fairly vanilla looking relationship to the outside. i admit that living and be exposed openly as a bdsm-slave will embarras me very much, but it will be ok for me that people does comment behind my back that it seems that i am quite a doormat and that You clearly are the one holding the reins in the household. That aspect of a role reversal will be difficult to hide i realize, and that too will be excitingly humiliating to me, but to live with.

I dont want to live alone any more, and hope to meet the Woman who want a male she can lead and mold to be useful to Her, both domestically and erotically - simply take over my life, steamrolling into my












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 Submissive Male



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 7"

 70 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Femdom Couples

 Lives For:

 Housework Service (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Serving as a Butler

 Female Supremacy


 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Electrical Play


 Massage (Giving)




 Fine Dining







 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service

 Foot Worship



 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Speech Restrictions


 Cross Stitch



 Sewing (Beginner)

 Female Led Relationships

 Lifestyle BDSM




 Canes and Crops

 Orgasm Denial




 Curious About:

 Anal Play


 Public Play

 Knitting (Beginner)



 Hard Limits:

 TV Sports


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Journal Entries:
11/14/2021 3:56:18 PM

End of 2021 only a couple of days away - will 2022 see me as a husband slave ?

i have decided to start planning for retirement before the end of 2023, and will then spend most of the time in my house in southern France - if that is what my Owner will want too ? If my owner lives elsewhere and need me there, my Provence place will be nice for vacations. Somewhat apart from neighbours with good privacy, and a basement that i am about to install with innocently looking fastening points for removable dungeon equipment.

3/23/2013 5:12:31 PM

It gives me a feeling of emptyness to only have my own clothes to wash, iron and repair. I am working on establishing good habits and routines for the day a Domme takes an interest in me. Every night before i go to bed i handwash shirts, socks and undies which i normally change 3-4 times a day to stay fresh. Then dripdry over night for ironing first thing in the morning before making my breakfast, which i alway does by setting the table properly. This i do at all meals.  All the time i have this longing of doing this for Her, my Owner, to be of use to a Woman that will make me feel owned and give me direction and purpose.

3/11/2013 12:17:55 AM

"It is often safer to be in chains than to be free !"
Franz Kafka

3/1/2013 5:45:47 AM

The type of relationship i think i will perform well and grow in is so called ALDD; Adult Loving Domestic Discipline. i actually want to fall in love with my owner, feel Her happiness and satisfaction when i perform and develop well, and be severly punished when She is not satisfied.  

1/31/2013 6:48:02 AM

Si vous etes une Femme Dompteuse qui parle francais, ou qui habite la France, cela vous interessera j'espère de voir que je parle passablement bien francais. Je suis en train de planifier pour une retraite dans le sud de la France, et a dépuis quelque temps une petite maison la bas assez proche de la mer et des plages.


Aussi je n'ai pas eu le plaisir de satisfaire une Femme dépuis deux ans ! Pas par manque de possibilitées, mais c'est toujours des Femmes vanille qui me veulent en homme macho, et les relations vanille ne marche plus pour moi - les fantaisies qui me tournent dans la tête sont toujours sûr des thèmes de soumission !

12/6/2012 6:17:49 AM

Just out of a 3 months relationship with Woman i tried to submit to by being of service and pamper, but when i "outed" myself to Her, She laughed and told me to leave ! So alone again - and lonely !

11/27/2012 2:03:19 AM

i think that in several ways i am an omega-male, this term in itself not precisely defined. Some places commented as "The polar opposite of the Alpha Male. Omega Males can have friends and close acquaintances but prefer to accomplish things on their own without the help of a group. Omega Males generally don't belong to any cliques and have no desire to be the leader or most outstanding of said clique."


Also:"Male in a group who is least likely to take the initiative and lead, due to a lack of esteem, ability or interest".

Clearly very close to how i see myself; i am definitely not a leader, nor do i want to lead.

11/9/2012 6:49:13 AM


Si il y une Femme francaise, ou qui veut communiquer en francais avec moi, et qui trouve mon profil ci-dessus interessant, n'hesites pas de me reclamer un version complet en francais. Je parle et comprends bien le francais, et aimerait bien y demeneager pour pour servir une Dompteuse serieuse. Je suis ouvert pour l'esclavage et pas seulement en sub.

En tout cas je fonctionne en mieux quand on m'impose des régles, de la structure et me pointe la direction á suivre ! J'apprends vite quand je sais que la canne est l'alternative douloureuse á un travail diligente. C'est en domestique et homme de ménage que j'ai mon expèrience.


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