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bdaile

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I am 22 years old and pretty new at all of this. I'm a single mom juggling my son and college, so I'm mainly just looking for friends. I'm open to finding someone to play with casually, though eventually I would like to find a permanent relationship.

A little more about me...

I love books! I will literally read anything and everything I can get my hands on. I do prefer paranormal romance novels or science fiction though.  Some of my favorite authors are Sherrilyn Kenyon, Christine Feehan, and Orson Scott Card.

I like watching medical shows, both real and fictitious. I enjoy Scrubs, House, Grey's Anatomy...the funny dramas. I also love the Discovery Health Channel and all the specials about different diseases.

I'm an animal lover, but not in the icky way. I've had pets my entire life, generally several at a time, and would love to find a place that will let me have them once again. I definitely prefer cats, though any kind of furry creature is great!

What I'm looking for....

Although I am only looking for friends at the moment, I leave myself open to the possibility of more. So, I'm going to let you know what I look for in a man.

Intelligence is number one. I need a man that I can have a decent conversation with, and find it a plus if he actually knows more than me. I love men who are secure in their knowledge and don't feel the need to make others feel dumb.

I prefer men taller than myself, which generally isn't too difficult to find, being that I'm 5'5. However, a super tall man (over 6') is a huge turn-on for me!

I do not like furry guys. LOL, I know this may be kind of picky, but if you have more hair on your back than on your head, I'm not interested. Also, my father is 43...if you are older than him, it's not gonna happen!

If you have any questions, feel free to email and ask me. My life is an open book, and I have no problem sharing my thoughts with you.
12/16/2008 7:57:41 AM
Well, this post probably won't score me any points, but it's so disgustingly funny that I feel a need to share! My son is 2 1/2, and likes to fight with his older cousins. Yesterday they were fighting and he came to me crying about his hand. I was checking my email, not really paying attention, so I just leaned over and kissed his hand and told him it would be okay.

He kept crying, saying "My hand, momma, my hand!" As I leaned over to kiss his hand again, I glanced down, only to see that he was COVERED in poop!

Apparently he had decided to play in his diaper, and spread it everywhere. Of course, I nearly vomited and started scrubbing my face with baby wipes, since I had just kissed that little poop-covered hand. After I changed him I went and swallowed about three gallons of mouthwash!

Okay, just felt the need to share my day of nastiness with the rest of you!
12/14/2008 8:47:21 AM
Okay....I have a little rant here....

Just because you're a Dom and I'm a sub doesn't mean that you don't still have to be polite. I don't know you well enough for you to think your word is law, or that I should have to call you sir. I'm not an instasub, so if that's what you want, you can keep on looking.

Also, if I've been chatting with you and express interest enough to start making plans to meet, it's very rude to just disappear. I mean, if I'm willing to give you my number when you want to call, then CALL dammit! Is it really that hard to pick up the phone when you say you will?

Okay, that's my rant for today....
12/12/2008 8:45:53 PM

Well, I'm bored, so I'm gonna write in my journal...random thoughts of nothingness. Feel free to completely skip this section of my journal, as most of it won't make any sense to you anyway...

I absolutely freakin love Gregory House! I mean, what red-blooded woman doesn't? He's gorgeous, a doctor, and uses big words (yes, I'm a geek, big words turn me on!).

I'm so tired of dealing with everyone else's crap. Why can't people just let me live my life without judging me? I am not a whore, I am not a skank, and I am not a doormat, and yet that is what everyone seems to think. It's so frustrating to be judged by people I don't know, much more so by people who claim to love me. If you really love me, you'll stop trying to turn me into a little carbon copy of yourself. I am not you!

Okay, that's the end of my personal craziness tonight, if you actually read that you are a far braver soul than most.

12/8/2008 9:49:21 AM

My first journal entry...what to say? Well, I am happy to have found this site, as I feel I am much more likely to find what I am looking for here than on other sites. I'm very inexperienced, so please forgive me for any blunders I may make.

I'm a very open person and have no secrets. If you have a question, just ask.