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Female Submissive, 36, Fredericktown, Missouri
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Female Submissive, 41, Scotland
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Female Submissive, 28
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About bbwsubnnorcal
OKAY---Before reading the rest of this profile, I have recently moved up the proverbial ladder and gone "Switch". I am interested in meeting a male sub or two in order to work on my flogging, rope bondage, and other skills. I am NOT interested in meeting idiotic asskissers who will fall to my feet and try and hump my boots specifically so he can be punished.
That does not mean i won't sub for the right Dom. But----please note what I am NOT looking for:
**One night stands or a "fun weekend" playing slap 'n' tickle. i am looking for a LTR with a partner who balances me as I will balance Him.
**i have no patience for dorks who demand i get on my knees and suck them off. Your newbie-ism is showing.
**With No. 2 said, as you can tell, i do not have the patience to teach you how to be a Dom! If you want to know where to gain the knowledge, i will be more than happy to assist. But DO NOT ask me, "I wanna learn how to be Dom, will you teach me?" You won't like my teaching methods.
**i am NOT looking to be a No.2 or No.3 in your stable of slaves. As i've read here and it rings so true---Find Stable Partners, not a stable of partners. When I sub, i am an Alpha sub. Notice the word--ALPHA.
**If You are looking simply to chat and make new friends, i welcome you to contact me. i am always looking to discuss a myriad of things both in and out of the BDSM world.
thank you,
The management
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NO MARRIED MEN NEED APPLY
Looking for: a Master who is intelligent, respectful, who knows when to be firm, but also knows when a morning of snuggling and great sex is just what this subbie needs...
NO MARRIED MEN NEED APPLY...
NO WANNABE's and no guys who confuse the term submissive as being an easy lay and doormat...
ALSO LOOKING FOR---
Experience male subs to make contact with and chat. I am working on my bondage skills and am interested in "talking shop" and experimenting. My interest is in what makes a male sub tick. |
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A quote from a fan:
"so who died and then left u the title of all time highpriestess of the bd wo rld? as usual, where is your PH-d in bd from mit or yale?"
*chuckles and shakes head in bemusement*
Need i say more? |
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Just because a guy likes a lot of sex, it does not make him kinky.
Just because a guy likes blow jobs, it does not make him kinky.
Just because a guy can act aggressive, it does not make him a Dominant.
Just because a guy likes to hurt others for his own pleasure, it does not make him a Sadist. (It makes him a psycho)
When a you tell someone the safe word and they ignore it, it makes them a Domineering Ass Hat!
A true Dom/Master is, above all, caring and considerate. Considerate of what makes a sub or a slave tick.
He learns that instead of demanding, he can command. He leads rather than threatens.
A true Dom/Master understands the equality of a D/s relationship--that one side is its' equal yet opposite part of the equation.
For you cannot have One without the other.
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After some time considering my thoughts in this adventure called life, I have discovered something. Most wannabe Doms are actually little boys who are TERRIFIED of women.
You want someone you can treat like an object--that will do what you want, when you want it, however, whenever, 24/7. Yet you don't want the RESPONSIBILITY or give the CONSIDERATION of something that serious and yes, that sacred.
It's like the idiots out in the world that buy a Dalmation puppy and then 6 months later take it to the Pound to be put down because "It didn't act like the dog in the movie."
Oh you say the pretty words, but I know that you truly don't know crap about the BDSM lifestyle or the psychological impact the lifestyle has on either yourself or a sub.
You see, what you really want--if you can look in the mirror and be truthful to yourself--
...is a blowup doll.
It doesn't doesn't think. It doesn't answer back or (God forbid) voice a different opinion other than yours...Its' mouth is ALWAYS wide open and its' legs are ALWAYS spread.
So do everyone one a favor---
Shut the F*CK UP. Drive to a Porn Shoppe, Spend the $100 on the Debbie Does Dallas doll you've been eyeing for months, and leave the rest of the world alone!!! |
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