i am heterosexual female switch who wants more to be submissive than dominant. when i dominate it is, in my opinion, submitting to the desires of the man at that time. but it's not what i truly want.
i have been in the lifestyle real time for 18 years but have, what i consider, very little experience because i am choosy about the person with whom i will scene. (notice i didn't type to whom i will submit or dominate.)
what i look for in a Dom is one who can teach me how to please him and who has the patience to understand i am older and set in my ways and may fight what he wants. but through his patience he will find one who will strive to be the best submissive she can be for him.

as the sub/bottom i am interested in spankings, light floggings, mild humiliation, rope dressing and bondage.

as Domme/Top, i simply search for the one who will do everything i want without question or demands of what he wants. i have only experience in sensual play, mild cbt , humiliation and bondage.

i continually search for a SINGLE, White Male preferably over the age of 60, who does Not smoke. I am a member of a Munch group in my home town and belong to a number of munch groups within a 100 mile radius.