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I am a submissive BBW who is now a redhead (I got tired of the natural blonde). I am looking for a man, couple or possibly a bi-woman who are truly dominant and know the difference between being an actual sexual dominant and just being rude. I want to be controlled and used. Please read my profile and see if this appeals to you. I am not exrreme since I am just getting started and seeing what works for me. Consider me a starter kits looking for influence. I have changed my mind about willingness to relocate if it is the right situation.

Since I have tried this is the past, stopped, and started a few times, there are a few entries here.

Let me make clear that I am a BBW. Just as my profile name states. So, if you are interested in a skinny girl, I am not for you. And please - no one who is interested in trying a BBW. I am here for those who are truly interested in fucking me and using me for who I am, the way that I am - and enjoying every minute of it.

I cropped my photo just for general safety and because I don't want it out there for professional reasons but if you are interested in me and there is a strong possibility that we will meet, I will gladly email not only nude body shots but some nice shots of my pussy and ass being fucked, finger-fucked and spread nice and open.
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I've thought about what might be an "ideal" start for me. I don't have much experience and tend to want to start slow and see how extreme I want to take this. Since I am not into pain and need discretion, I honestly don't know how far I can go. Again, let me stress - Pain is not a turn-on for me. I have tried it and it is a deal-breaker.

But I am looking for a consistant dom or domme (or even a couple where BOTH are dom) where ass and pussy could be used to please and entertain them. My pussy can be used quite readily and it stays quite tight. I love having it worn out with cock and toys. But my ass needs to be worn in so I can more readily take a fucking. It needs stretching and use by someone who knows ass-training.
I am wanting someone close-by (not more than a 30-45 minute drive) that I can whore myself to regularly. They need to religiously practice safe sex.

I also need someone who can "train" me in DP and arrange gang bangs. I don't mind if people watch me get fucked and will fuck who or what I am told.

I don't play games and don't waste time. I prefer to meet TO fuck. No drinks or anything. I know what I am there to do and am ready to fuck when I get there. Anything else is a buzz-kill. You get to test drive and see if you want to continue using me. If I please you and you want more, then we can arrange that. I prefer to limit the first fuck to an hour just for safety.

Is there anyone out there who is interested and has these credentials?

And, please. There is a diference between being dominant and being a jerk. I need someone who is dominant but still a decent human being that I can trust to treat me right.


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I am trying this one more time. I have deactivated twice now because of the amount of insincere and/or phony contacts. Let's hope things go better. I am sincere but selective. Please read my profile before messaging me. Thanks.

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First, it is very important that you know who I am and what I am looking for before you message me. Please read the entire profile before sending a message. Thanks

I am
new to this and am truly wanting to be dominated and used as a sex toy - men, women and couples (as long as both are dom - I'm sorry, but I'm not interested in playing with another sub) are fine. Prefer men or couples but interested in women (love to play with titties and love the taste of pussy) if they are dominant! I am not interested in someone who is another sub - I am only looking for someone dominant. I am looking for someone who is experienced, merciful and respectful.

I am BBW with large tits and a tight pussy and ass. I am not looking to change who I am or what I look like. I am who I am and either you like me as I am now or there is no hope anything happening between us.

No pain or bathroom activities. Let me repeat that to make sure it is clear: No pain.

Light bondage, anal play and anal sex, toys (and other items) are fine - we may move onto other things!

Cameras are fine as long as my face doesn't show and I get copies for my collection.

Don't like doing small talk, drinks or dinner. I don't like pretense. I am there for sex and you don't need to do anything to coax me. I expect to be groped - or whatever you like from the moment I get there. I am a slut and your sex toy to use as you wish.

I am very willing to do groups and gang bangs.

I cannot host and am available weeknights and weekends. Conversely, I am not available weekdays. I need discretion due to work and therefore am not looking for 24/7. I am also not able to travel. This includes to other states - and across the state.

Just about everything is negotiable! Very trainable and willing to please!


Please do not send me a message just saying something like "Let's chat" (or the phrase "if you are for real" - it is a pet peeve) - no one-liners because I will not respond. It's a matter of first impression. If that is all you have to say for yourself, I will figure that it's best I move on to the next message. Also, if you are demanding or rude in your first email, I will not respond. I am not your sub yet and I have to evaluate if someone is "safe" before I decide to meet with them. Please think about your first impression. I'm not trying to be rude but rather letting you know that I do read through messages and have to make judgment calls.

I do not give out my IM information unless I really get to know you. Please don't ask.

I do not add you to my friends unless I know you. Don't send a friend request without at least sending me a message to introduce yourself.

It is very important to me that you read my profile. Please mention the word "icicle" in your message so I know you read my profile. I am not playing games - but, as I said, it is important that you know what I am looking for before you message me. If you do not mention that word somehow in your response, I will not respond. I hate being this way but I don't have a choice after some of the messages and inquiries I have received.

I am a very submissive fuck toy but I have to be safe at the same time and make the best decisions I can. Once you get to know me and we decide to play, trust me, you will enjoy using me!


5/7/2014 4:54:33 PM
Let's be totally clear here. If you are too busy to read my profile, you need to move on because my answer will be no. If you are an immediate asshole in contacting me, you need to move on because my answer will be no. And I will block you. If you don't know the difference between being dominant and being a rude jackass, you need to move on because my answer will be no. Plus you are a poser and don't understand this lifestyle. AND IF YOU ARE GOING TO REACT TO MY POLITE REFUSAL BY SENDING A BUDDY TO - oh, yes - THREATEN MY GODDAMN LIFE? You need serious therapy. Yes, folks. A piece of excrement who thinks abusing women is what this community is about had a buddy message me to graphically tell me how he was going to put a gun to my head and shoot me. That's one cowardly piece of shit. And this was just from being told no. What do you think he does to women foolish enough to meet him? I am only interested in real men. Real men can take a simple no. Real men don't need a gun to prove they are real men. (Don't care if you have one but it shouldn't be a compensation.) And real men do not threaten to kill women.

6/9/2012 4:53:15 PM
I have had an interesting change of mind. I have thought this over. I am a single submissive with no kids who needs real, serious and ongoing training from a real, experienced dom. I have decided that under the right circumstances. I will relocate as a live-in sex slave/toy. I would be available to a dom all the time for use and training. There would no longer be schedule or travel issues and there is no better way to learn obedience than to be fucked at your master's will. What he wants, when he wants, who he wants and where he wants. Right situation and master and I move to learn, train and serve.

5/14/2012 7:16:16 PM
Been asked several times. I will say this: If you are one wanting a girl interested in purchases from zeta creations - or using them or things hinted therein - I am not experienced but that doesn't mean I won't discuss possibly or try. Not a promo but a hint of willingness to be degraded and humiliated - only because I have been asked.

1/16/2012 5:12:47 PM
I've been asked by and received comments from lesbian dommes wanting a chance to use me. Even though I am straight, I do play bi in certain circumstances. If a domme wanted time to work me over. To fuck me. Make me eat pussy right. I would love proper instruction for dom couples when a demanding bi woman wants me to do things right. My mind and body is available if the situation is right- especially if she also wants to and has ability to make me a slut to all at her whim. Just please message details and don't ask to chat or IM. I hate that in all requests and ignore all those that say that. Male or female.

1/16/2012 4:51:04 PM
Major fantasy for me. Going to a truckstop and offering free fucks, hand, jobs and even anal to any driver that wants it. Totally free. Not prostitution. Probably better with a dom approaching drivers. But going with men simply to fuck, get him off and be expected to get out and leave with his used condom in my hand. Two men want it at once? Fine. Groups. Fine. I service them all for free and get used to a lot of pussy pounding. How would that go over in reality? Better as fantasy? Set up some in advance instead?

1/16/2012 4:35:33 PM
Not just trying to get myself off but I was wondering: I have a stationary dildo and, aside of pleasure in fucking myself with it, how long I should be fucking it each day to be prepared to take a good gang bang. It is a good size in length and width and I ride it at a pretty regular and hard pace. A good pace. Nothing petite. A speed to please men and gets me off. Deep. The tip. But my question remains for getting this cunt ready - how long should I fuck it daily regardless of cumming? I want to please a master when presented for gang bangs. Don't want to embarass him. I was thinking 5 guys to start. 30 minutes?

1/16/2012 12:30:13 PM
Still fantasizing about role play of being "taught" and my innocence taken. Older daddy. Or maybe something medical.

1/16/2012 12:25:20 PM
God, I need a good pussy pounding. Hard core. No small talk. Doggie style, men sticking anonymous cocks in my cunt and pounding me until I'm sore. One guy maybe but getting 2 or 3 or more? Better. God. To be fucked hard with my nipples worked? Gasp. I would even be willing and eager to do a slightly forced scene. Willing to discuss.

10/9/2011 5:42:20 PM

Seriously, anyone out there looking for a little roleplay? Older dominant gentlemen who want to play and "teach" me how to play with my pussy, play with and suck a cock and fuck a cock and toys with my pussy and/or ass?  Up for discussion - want to play an innocent tease taught how to use her naughty parts to please a man.  I know I am not built that way but the idea of being taught just massively turns me on right now.


10/9/2011 5:37:14 PM

I've been told that this might not be the right place for me to look but I think it is the perfect place.  While I do hit a lot of phonies but my chances of finding someone actually experienced that can train me?  Much higher.  No, I don't like pain, 24/7 or public stuff.  But I am submissive and clay to be molded.  I explicitly list things from questions and experience so there are no misunderstandings or wasted time.  Someone can read or gaze over the profile, see I am or am not into something.

I want a true dominant - a man who knows how to put me in my place, treat me like a slut put me into DP, gang bang and group situations.  Bondage.  Just why the hell do I have to be into pain?  I'm a beginner.  Maybe after I ease into things a bit more, more options will arise but it is going to take a patient master or masters to do it.

And I need to start with the ass. I love ass play and want to be able to take a lot in a gang bang but just don't have the experience yet.  It needs stretching.


10/9/2011 5:08:45 PM

Not to be a bitch but could you guys please read the profile?  I know it is long but I am getting frustrated with these one sentence inqueries asking what I am into when it is all right there in extremely explicit detail.  What I do and don't do.  Hard limits.  What I'd like to try and be trained in.  It is all there.  And the recent interests, ideas and fantasies are in the journal.  If you want to ask if I am into something not mentioned, that is cool.  I get that.  But to just ask what I am into? It takes restraint not to be rude and I hate to be rude. 

And when someone just sends a message with "Want to chat" or something like that? Sorry, but I instantly delete it.....and it even says so in my profile! 

Look, I am honestly not a rude person but think of this as going into a singles bar - is a girl going to go home with the guy who just says "hi" or the one that really talks to her?

If you want my attention and to get something from me - to get me going? Tell me exactly what YOU are into so I know right away if we are going to click and I guarantee I will reply to tell you yes or no.  The more explicit the better because I really need to know and it will save time.

I don't chat, IM or cam. Those are time wasters. I don't do the awkward drinks or dinner because they are just that - awkward.  We know why I am there and for what.  Why pretend otherwise.  Then the transition is even more awkward.  If things really click after that first meeting, then we can discuss other things but that first meeting is just sex.  I arrive, fuck and then leave.  The first time is also shorter just for my personal safety - I check in and out with someone. They don't know what I am doing but that I am going out.

Just explaining so there aren't any other questions on it.


10/9/2011 4:46:11 PM

Trying to think of safe ways to to more of a forced scene - not exactly simulated rape but resisting and rather than simply submitting, being forced into submission.  Being told that I am going to satisfy all the fucking and cocks I am told before I can leave. Being told I'd better not give an attitude but shut up and spread my legs. 

I also need to find someone to take more recent penetration shots of me - cocks, toys and whatever else. I don't have a lot the way it is and the ones that I do have are a bit old.  Actually, come to think about it - the ones I do have are just spreading my ass cheaks and pussy lips and one with a cock in me that, ultimately, I couldn't totally accomodate because it was too big.  I felt bad but the guy was too huge to take it in my ass no matter how much I tried.  I loved it in my pussy but I know that wasn't wanted to do.


10/7/2011 4:41:30 PM

I have two new fantasies.  Maybe they can be done since older people are coming south now. They'd have to like BBWs and I am looking for about 20 years older than me - give or take. Appearances unimportant as there is a working, reliable cock. 

 

1) a 100% dominant couple (not switch).  The woman prepares me properly and uses me as she wishes.  Maybe even shaving me so I am done in the right way for the man. She uses nipple clips and whatever toys she wishes.  She could use me to get herself off. Maybe bathe me so she can personally clean my pussy and my holes.  Maybe he watch.  But maybe he'd be gone for her use/preparation/abuse.  Then she'd have me tied properly when he got home.  Maybe they'd both then use me.  Maybe she'd tell me that now she'd put time into getting me ready, I'd better fuck right and get him off.  Maybe they'd switch off.  But to be prepared and used and then handed over for a husband's use.  Maybe I'd consider a female switch.  It would work here. 

 

2) Role play with a man or group of men about 20 uears older than me where I am "taught" how to fuck.  Daddy/uncles, schoolgirl, dirty neighbor - whatever.  I want to play innocent, taught, violated like a naughty virgin tease.  Protest a little. Then take it.  Pussy then ass.  Fingers in me. Toys. Cocks. One man or a few

Or even just the dirty old man thing where I may or may not be innocent but resist and am then dominated, roped and otherwise brought to service cock or cocks starting with my pussy but still pretending my ass is virgin and being told that this is the time I am going to learn to use it to please men.

 

Interested? Let me know your interests and scenarios and we will see what we can work out.


8/14/2011 1:44:13 PM

I am fascinated by what seems such a simple pleasure. 

 

I usually use dildoes and vibrators to make myself cum on my own.  I can use my fingers for a quickie but there is nothing like having something in at least one of your holes (and I do love to DP myself when it is just me).  My favorites?  I have this long hard, old school, wide-ish vibrator that I don't even bother to load with batteries.  I just want it to have it IN me.  A little lube and it takes a little to get it in my tight little a**hole but then I ride it and it slides SO well.  Long strokes or I can make it fast.  Perfect width.  Nice and long.  Nice and smooth.  God, it is good.  Never in the puss.  Always backdoor.

 

That usually leads to the other favorite.  It stretches me enough for the first rung of this odd butt plug.  Not meant to be word, I think.  It doesn't cinch in.  But it gets wider in steps.  I can place it on the floor for a firm base, fuck myself level by level but that last one is always hard - but as soon as it is in?  Heaven.  I grind.  I feel the stretch and sometimes put sonething in to fuck my pussy. 

 

All that effort and now this has just been making me wild - just sitting and either waking up in the morning or watching tv....lifting my shirt....and just running my finger very softly around my nipple.  Around and around.  Once I drove myself so wild with that (don't ask me how) that when I gave my clit it's attention, I had multiple orgasms - couldn't even catch my breath.  I even tried it in a public bathroom but had to speed it up by wetting my finger.  Don't know when my tits got to be like this.  And if I speed it up with a little sucking to wet it so the A/C gets it? But I wonder now what clips will and would do.  If just light circling makes me cum like a whore?  Yet I still think when I am getting fucked I want rough nipple play.  Pinch them.  Suck them.  Make me moan with them.


6/30/2011 5:46:39 PM
I am preparing to be trained to please a Master. I am preparing myself for his training and hope when he tries me, he finds me pleasing. If you have solitary requests, he may want your information as I will be used and shared - especially by those who are so interested. Just please give more information than that you want to fuck me. We need to know your experience, how you want to use me and where you are located. He needs to know if you'd be in distance and if he'd enjoy seeing me used by you.

6/30/2011 3:15:50 PM
And for daring to say what I just said I just had some prick dare to say I am a guy posing as a girl. Anyone want to tell him who has seen the proof and met with me? The type of guy that says crap like that is the immature type that tells his buddies at a bar that when a girl refuses him (frequently) that she must be a lesbian. No. Real girl. I gave you every detail and if you interest me, I will message with you. I get a lot of responses to my post. Not everyone will get something from my body or even a response. I don't fuck every response and in the past hour I have indeed seen the unfuckable.

6/30/2011 2:58:23 PM
Just to protect women out there - just because we post as a sub or have a kinky list, that doesn't require us to do anything because you send a message. Obeying a master is one thing when it comes to play with random others. But because you message me here doesn't mean I - or any girl here - has to have sex with every guy who messages. It is common sense. Do people marry every person they date? It's a selection. Beware those who have multiple profiles to duck blocking. And how can you report someone? Some people need a permanent safe word placed on them for the good of all girls. I can tell you StrictJim and Jimsincharge are the same person. So, if he harrasses you, you tell him to stop and block him, he will just come back and vulgarly message again. Don't be fooled. Same guy. Two profiles tell a girl something. Take the hint. Just be careful, girls.

6/23/2011 6:14:17 PM

I am really craving having my pussy REALLY fucked.  I want a gang bang or anything that would really, really fuck it.  I want my legs held open so my pink pussy lips are exposed for any and all cock.  I know everyone wants all holes and I can do that but this pussy really needs attention by more than one cock.


5/2/2011 2:16:01 PM

Lord, I hate repeating myself.  I am a novice sub but I do know a few things. There is a difference between a real, true dom who is worth considering a match and a guy who is just a asinine jerk.  If I list a limit, don't tell me it isn't.  It is.  If we are going to have some fun, it is a matter of reading off the same page and respecting limits.  If you can't even respect it before meeting me, why would I trust you and decide to play with you? 

 

Think of it this way, there is a difference between being a dom and a jerk and if a girl wanted to just find some jerk to fuck me and treat me like crap, why would I be here going through this trouble?  I can find plenty of those in a bar on a Friday night!  I want a dom for a certain type of sexual relationship and interaction.  If you can understand that, then read my profile first and contact me.


4/30/2011 3:26:05 PM

Okay.  Starting to have problems with people not reading my profile first and not understanding what I am looking for.  Frustrated.


4/30/2011 12:40:35 PM

I do need to work on getting my ass loosened and better ready to take a good fucking without any fuss.  Take cocks easier and take bigger ones. No complaints or excuses.  I was a bad girl once and the guy was too big for my hole.  Yes, he got to finish in my puss but that shouldn't happen.  I should have been ready and trained to take any cock, right?  I don't want rough stuff.  I want a dominant man or woman who is skilled and truly likes working, stretching and training an ass for proper fucking.  I know a lot of men just want to fuck my ass - but that's not what I need....eventually, yes.  I need someone who will make me a really good ass whore first.


4/30/2011 12:30:58 PM

Just adding a turn on.  A guy who would routinely find and set up occasions for himself and 1 or more men to meet somewhere, have a buttplug put into me and have them fuck my pussy until they run out of cum.  I don't care where he finds the men.  I don't want to know their names.  As long as they wear condoms, I will let them fuck me.  Can't take a long anal fucking yet but I think having it in there would give them more pleasure.  Near St Pete/Clearwater Airport is a good area for meeting.


6/29/2007 8:03:42 PM
To be honest, I don't know if I am going to keep my listing.  I started this as a very sincere submissive gal looking for a merciful dom for some experimentation and mutual fun.  I was new and wanting to ease into it.  I was pretty explicit about what I wanted and what I was willing to do.  I was looking for a dominant man - or couple or woman, depending on what works.  I have found maybe two people who "get" that.  I say "people" because one is a woman and seems damned good at what she does.  But the rest?
1) No one seems to read the profile before sending a message or maybe they just don't care.  Doesn't matter.  2) There is a difference between "dominant" and "bossy".  I don't know you.  I am deciding if I want to get to know you and if I am going to feel safe even meeting you.  I am putting myself in a VERY risky situation and I am going to be careful.  Think about how you talk to someone you don't even know and think if they would pick you out of a list of emails.  Should I pick you if you tell me nothing, have no city listed and don't have a picture?  Should I pick you if you are rude from the start?  Should I pick you if you start ordering me and threatening me before I have even decided you and I are going to get involved?  I have found increasingly that my boundaries aren't even respected in messages which leads me to believe that they won't be respected in person.  I read these messages hoping to find some fun and sexual excitement and instead get disgusted and angry.  Maybe I'm just going through a bad patch of responses.  I hope so, because I am about sign off of here permanently and just go have fun with the two people who understand what this is about and I feel secure in trusting with my body as they control it.  Isn't that the essence here?  Trusting another person with control - handing it over - and seeing how far they can take it for your pleasure and theirs?

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