KNOW A WOMAN...

In all OF OUR magnificant power and glory,

Know me.. know that my strength is in my emotions, intellect, compassion, anger and love. 

Women hold the key to society.. because it is our heart and our love that keeps men from becoming hard, cold ruthless testosterone poisened arrogent asses.

Know me, know that my desires are much deeper than you making me cum.  I dont settle for physical release..   Telling a woman that you get pleasure out of pleasing her .. means you are evolved enough to step up your game and be soo much more than a physical tool...that would make you no more than a dildo.. and trust me batteries are much easier to deal with than a man.   There is a time for that.. but not until you do more for me than replace my toys.  Know me- know that my love for a day or a week a year or 10 years is more power than you can even begin to realize... Womens power is unmistakable..and undeniable.. without it the world would be lost... We hold the key to a more evolved life.. one that makes this world a better place...

okay 4 phones later with Verizon.. and I finally decided to downgrade to a blackberry from a droid--- well let me tell you --- GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR SOOO glad there is not someone here to take my frustration out on.... It combines all of my email addsy.. my im addys.. and my contacts on my phone.. and each person has  different line even if I have a phone and an im that is the same.. OMG... I am irritated and not exactly sure how I am going to get everyone into the right category.. JEEEEEEEAZZZZZZZZZZ... Louise... I am soooo not technilogically savy..  GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRrr  so if someone gets a funky thing from me dont be too alarmed.. .it is not my fault it is VERIZON

                                                MY take on MONOGOMY

Okay apparently there is confusion.. so a little clarity from me..

NOT happening.. NO way NO how NO freaken way.. absolutely positively not for me.. Clear enough? LOL

I do not believe in exclusive relationships.. I do not believe in 1 person for the rest of my life.. it is not my way... so just because I met a new boi- / girl.. that simply means I met an interesting person who is fun to be around and that infamous connection that I talk about has begun...

NOW

about those connections.. They could be for an hour-- a day or a weekend-- they may be a day old a week old a year old or 10 years old...

I am a person who takes life as it comes.. I enjoy it along the way.. and whatever occurs- is ment to happen good or bad.  I dont pine over lost relationships- I am grateful I met that person and enjoy whatever we had together... it was ment to happen.. and I was smart enough to enjoy it....

SO.. when I meet someone amazing .. I am really happy and excited I met them.. and that is great.. and am hoping to have fun with them.. but that is what it amounts to...

There is NO great play of the future coming ahead.. we are simply getting to know one another...

                                                         A new boi for me

I met a submissive last night for coffee at a cute quaint coffee shop in my city... I was a little irritated with him to begin with, but I do realize that people are different online than they are in person.. so I gave him the benefit of the doubt.. I sat down and he started talking.. and boy could he talk.. and I LOVED IT... while online he was all about his fetishes in person he was all about him.. his life.. his passions.. his kids.. his family..

IT WAS wonderful. .and at that point although I could not I wanted to grab him kiss him and pull him to my breast... the more he talked about his life and himself the more my feelings grew for him... There was something there more than a person who cross dresses and likes to be feminized--- although I can see having a great deal of fun with that as well... I can see all sorts of possiblity for this boi and I.. We even talked about his relationship with his wife and I showed him how he had been a pig of a man and trained his wife not to want his touch by being a grabby slime.. who really treated what he said he loved like a cum machine for his pleasure...

While he is a slimy piece of garbage.. I see so much promise in him I cannot wait to go further in our time together and help him grow into my boi who will be an amazing submissive.

                                                      A mommys job is never done

How you treat a woman will ultimatly determine your happiness in life... SO in thinking that ... you must realize .. things are not going to be your way.. so here goes...

I want a person first.. a submissive second... that is probably the biggest challenge I am having.. and it will be ending.. the people who are coming at me with mommy this and mommy that are just going to be chastised, critisized, belittled, and overall treated like the piece of shit they are. I am a woman with interests .. and you should be  a person with them as well.. other than sex. 

the D/s is about 20 % of life.. therefore our conversations will represent this.. I want 80 percent you ..and once I like you as a human.. I will love you as a submissive--- but if the sub is all you got I am not interested...

I understand it is great to have someone understand what you are feeling and wanting to talk about it and being ABLE to talk about it.. is a great thing.. and we can get there... but first I need to know you . .like you .. trust you... before I am going there...

It is sad that even some subs  look at me as a tool to get off.. if that is how you look at me.. you will be sorely dissapointed.. .One of the major lessons of being a mommy will be teaching you a much more respectful way to treat a woman... after all that is a mommys job

I am coming to the conclusion- that most of the men on here want a pro domme service for free----------- and that is why I received over 200 emails.. they are looking at me like a sucker- who is gullable enough to run my life to meet their terms and do it for free while others are charging 200 plus dollars an hour for their service-------- but since I am not pro.. many have been in for a huge surprise--- here are some of my observations..

• I find some things very interesting.. not in an angry mean way more in a truely interesting way.
• I ask a sub what you like- they say well what do you like- then get incredibly freaked out when I tell them the different things I like..which I why I say please lets go with your limits, I can be happy with those, but mine will freak you out.
• All the while professing they want to make me happy and serve me- it has become clearly obvious that the fakers really want to make me a cum machine or even worse a receptacle- or make it so I get them off.. -
• Many of the men here have no desire to be submissive and do as I ask- with the emotional connection - they want the physical component- which would oh yea be a PRO DOMME---
• they tell me what they want- what their fantasies are when i say I would love to take you there- but first I need to know about you- they run scared- which is a testimant to how bad we are as a society that we have NO idea how to connect  with others on an emotional level, and even less desire to do so.
• the only way I will play with high levels of intensity- is with someone I know very well.. again
• I love submissive men because I believe they are wiser than regular men who look at women like objects and are completly ruled by their cock.. Submissive men are ruled by their feelings about their dominant- NOT about how to get off or get someone else off..
• IN SUMMARY .... Submissive men look at women as a WHOLE-person-------- NOT a HOLE to dump something in or hole to produce fluids

Another question I have been asked- what are you into?..

 Okay so here goes.. I was a submissive- I played with many Doms.  I did very mild scenes, medium and harsh scenes... I have done some edge breath play.. and pain play and have been told that my pain threshold was the best they have ever seen.   I have also done a scene that was completely mental bondage- It was amaaaazing... no pain what-so-ever.. except a little muscle soreness from being in 1 position a while..

 SO that being said.. PLEASE do not ask me what I am into.. Please start out with telling me what you are into.  The gammet of what I like is large.. and there is no point going through that entire list.. for you to try and pick out what you like in that list. 

 I will never judge- that doesnt mean I will do everything, however------ it does mean that I will not chastise you ------- well maybe in scene--- lol but never in real life when we are discussing ideas... Even if something is NOT my thing... that is okay.. I will not judge- but lets be real and up front  if you want to talk to me.. please do..and please at least believe in my words enough to know I do not lie ..

 I want the typing process simplified so we can decide if we should meet or not.. thank you for listening and respecting what I have to say

I have been asked by just about every submissive what do I get out of this?..  

Well ----- Very simply..I get the connection.  I get the magic of scenes.. and by that I mean.. for me "playing" with someone gives me a few hours or a weekend of undivided attention, and me giving someone my undivided attention.  There is no where in life where you can get that intensity of care and concern for the person you are with.  It gives me hours of touching a person.. which I love to do most of all.. I love to hold you .. touch you, stroke you, feel your heart beat, your breath, I love the intimacy of it all. 

I pay attention to every muscle you have.. not just your cock or your pussy.  I pay attention to your breathing, your facial muscles, your eye dialation, if you are squinching up your toes because I am causing you pain and you are not wanting to show me.  I pay attention to every part of your body not your cock or pussy.. I listen to you, care about you, and understand that what we share is passion, and you may need me to hit you until you cant stand it.. or you may need me to just listen to you..  

You pay attention to my every move.  As my submissive you will not look at me as a cum machine.  You will not tell me what you are going to do to my body..  If you are blindfolded you listen for my skin to move.. to smell my perfume to determine where  am I going to touch you... is it going to be gently or harshly. or lovingly. Are we going to have lap time, nipple time, corner time, spanking time, ice time, belt time, hand time, or orgasm time?.. You look at me to read me so you know what to do or not to do.   

There is no where in life, where you can have that much attention given and shown, and know that person will not judge, will just accept you for who you are.. and love you for it.. even if only for a few hours a month, a quarter or a day...  

That is what I get out of MY relationships with my boys/ girls...

I have to be out of town for a few days.  I will not be able to respond to emails, or my yahoo.  I will be checking emails, but will not have a great deal of time.  If you have emailed me... I willl respond to every email, it will just take time.  I will show everyone the same level of respect that I demand from you.  There is simply an overabundance of people who want to chat. 

I do not want anyone going away feeling that they are not important, whether I choose to meet them or not.  I will now only chat with 2 at a time online, so it may take me a while to talk to everyone... be patient.. when I talk to you.. it will be as real as I am asking you to be.