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BBWforsubslave

Hello there! I am a 47 yo white BBW Domme/Mistress. I am looking for a long term sub/slave. (I tend to think I lean more towards wanting a slave, but it’s all relative. One person’s sub is another’s slave, and vice versa.) I would say my style as a Domme is a blend of sadistic and nurturing. I’m strict, but can also be very loving. I have a lot of layers to me, and seek an s who will enjoy peeling back those layers. I hope to find someone I connect with on both vanilla and kink levels, and who will help me continue to grow as a Domme as I help them grow as an s. I think the mind fuck is the best part of any Ds dynamic and I enjoy nurturing that Some musts for me: I’m looking for an s who is intelligent and engaged with the world. An s who can make me laugh. An s who aspires to serve his D’s every desire. I also require an s who is within a 60-90 minutes of Nashville. I have found that any distance greater than that makes it difficult to build a solid dynamic. I prefer an s who is alpha in public and submissive in private. I am seeking an s who is generally between 35-57 What am I not looking for? I am not looking for pickup play or play partners or something casual. I am not looking for someone on the other side of the country, or in another country entirely. I am not looking for an s who is poly or otherwise partnered. I am not looking for an s who simply wants a fetish dispenser. Mostly, I am not looking for someone who is self-serving and looking out solely for their own pleasure and needs. If you’re looking for a Domme that will play with you right out of the gate, I am not a good fit for you. I am looking for something long term, and prefer to build a mental connection before diving into play. Being a Domme is who I am when I am my most authentic self. It’s not a role I step into. I want to lean into being a Domme as much as I can in my life. And I want someone who feels the same way about being an s. Discretion (both yours and mine) is important to me. Please be respectful.