Oh the irony....

I received a cut and paste message from someone who had clearly not read my profile. Nothing particularly unusual about that, but on her profile she says......

"To those of you who have taken the time to read my profile and send me mail, thank you. To those that did not bother reading the profile and sent an inappropriate email - READ THE PROFILE!!!!!!"

One word hypocrite

For the avoidance of doubt I am seeking a personal relationship not a business one.

If your profile mentions tributes or contains a wishlist please don't bother me.

Met a very nice lady from this site yesterday :)

We have always been at war with Oceania 

I seem to be alone in thinking that the phone hacking thing is a storm in a teacup.

Don't get me wrong, it was bang out of order and heads should indeed be rolling. Seeing Murdoch being doorstepped on a golf course was poetic justice indeed. The hunters have become the prey. A massive witch hunt is on and journalists are the target.

Newsflash..... Big businesses get up to dirty tricks. Drug companies stifle research into finding cures for disease because there is more money in palliative care.

In the grand scheme of things phone hacking is a misdemeanor deserving a slap on the wrist, we are being set up so that we will accept controls on the press and that should scare everyone.

Big Brother watches us all

Last nights date went very well :)

On a not entirely unrelated note, I have resolved to get fit and healthy, the results have been vividly pictured and are certain.

Wake up it's a beautifull morning

Our emotions come from within us. We can all choose to be miserable or we can choose to be blissfully happy

It is not the events of life that shape us but the meanings that we give them.

my emotions have been on a roller coaster these last few weeks.

II truly believed that all of my dreams were about to come true, that I had found the loving nurturing Domme that I have been searching for, for so long It felt like I had found my soulmate and I thought that I was hers.

We talked and texted for 3 weeks. She showered me with love and affection, so when I flew the 400 or so miles to Finlay meet her I had no doubts in my mind, the chemistry was already there for me, we didn't need to be in the same room for me to feel it. I was already planning the wedding

In the four days that I was there she was polite and friendly but held me at arms length it seems that from the first moment she clapped eyes on me she had decided that the spark wasn't there for her and that was that.

These last couple of days I have been feeling a lot of pain and my self confidence has taken a huge blow.

I could choose to go on feeling the pain.

I could choose to believe that the spark will never be there because I'm the kinda guy that women don't get sparks off

I could choose to mope.

Nah,

I'll make the choices that empower me

I choose to embrace life, treat each new day as the precious gift that it is.

I choose confidence in the belief of my own beauty.

I choose to come out fighting and take on the world.

Hurting real bad.

The way that some people in the lifestyle talk about the "right" or "true" way of doing things would suggest that somewhere there is a D/s Parliament making laws. I've seen so called lifestyle websites that profess to teach correct slave positions.... get real.

So then, do all dominant women..............?

I've heard a few different definitions of the differences between sub and slave and they all amount to semantics, everyone has limits and submissiveness is a spectrum.

I don't see how anyone who is not in a relationship or who is in a newish relationship could make that distinction anyway. To me a relationship is a journey that grows organically, both partners may have a clear picture of where they want to go but what is it they say? The journey is the destination. By all means make tpe the goal but find joy and fulfillment in the moment.

What's 24/7 D/s?

When I find my partner in life she will always be my partner and I will always want to please her. Thats my definition.

Punter: “You should have turned left there mate” 

Me: “What you mean is that you would have turned left there. Having spent two years of my life on the Knowledge, out in all weathers learning every nook and cranny of this manor I had decided on a route that didn’t involve a left turn at that point” 

Punter: “I’m going to Queens Hospital” 

Me: “Yes you told me that when you got in” 

Punter: “But you’re going the wrong way” 

At this point I usually stop the cab and explain that they do not teach us how to read minds on the knowledge and ask them exactly what route they wish me to take......... 

Punter: “Well the bus always goes along Main Road”

Then there’s the night shift 

Punter at the window: “How much to Rainham Cherry Tree?” 

Me “It’s on the meter, roughly about a tenner” 

Punter: Will you do it for a fiver 

Me: Looking at the long queue of people waiting in the rain for a cab

“No” 

Punter “Why not?”

A love story that I wrote a few years ago.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.php?storyid=6936

Wanna play..............................?

Chess or backgammon? I have the username bartman at itsyourturn.com and welcome challenges