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Male Dominant, 43
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Male Submissive, 27, SW, Virginia
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Female Submissive, 25, SALEM, Virginia
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About BarefootLady
Taking a Break
I'm taking an extended break from CS. I'll probably be back sometime over the winter. If you message me and think I'm worth waiting for, drop me a paragraph or two and I'll get back to you when I'm on again. Think before you write, one liners and generic messages will still get deleted.
It's All About the Connection
Don't get me wrong, fetish stuff is fun. Fetish stuff is awesome. But at the end of the day, it's about the bond between me and my sub. About the smile that's just for me, the way we understand each other. About being together long enough that sometimes we don't need to speak we just know. About the feeling that comes when our eyes meet and we both know that they are mine and I am theirs and all is right with the world.
About Me
I'm a bi poly kinky writer currently in one long term relationship with another dom. I write fantasy stories with a kinky twist, and I try to make the twist unique (enough of the vampire doms--how about a vampire slave serving a vampire hunter? Or the alpha werewolf who's instincts pull him into the service of a moon witch?)
I have kids, so I need to plan my fetish time around parenting, but I'm openly poly and any/all my partners (kinky and others) are welcome meet my family in vanilla settings. I'd much prefer to connect with a partner I can invite over for the holidays in addition to our quality bondage time. Speaking of holidays, I'm Jewish and moderately observant. You are welcome to visit me on Shabbat, but I will not be getting in a car until after Sundown.
Walks in the woods are an ideal way to spend time together, bonus if we find an out of the way tree or rock for some mild bondage and play in the open air. Geekery cannot be overrated. Han did shoot first, Han always shot first, there is no question which cannot be answered with "42," and if you can understand how classic SF such as Heinlein, Star Trek, and others helped inspire the modern social justice movement we'll get along great.
My Kinks
Here's the part you've been waiting for, right?
I am, as it says above, dominant. I am also a sadist and a masochist, rigger and rope slut. I will tie myself up in a rope harness and put on some nipple clamps before I hog tie you, blindfold you, and drip hot wax all over your sensitive bits. You can listen to the chain between the nipple clamps jingle as you try to guess where I am and what I'll do next.
I have a love/hate relationship with gags. I love the site of a cleave gagged sub, and the way the eyes become so much more expressive when you can't talk, but I hate not being able to hear the way you react to the way I use and abuse you.
Pet play can be fun as an occasional thing, ditto objectification/furniture play. Neither are things I am seriously into.
I am NOT into sissies and sissification. If you are a crossdresser already or interested in becoming one, I will be happy to help you with your makeup, outfits and female persona. I will not "force" you to become female, or use crossdressing as part of humiliation play.
Similar deal for trans folk. Happy to be friend, support, ally, but your gender is not a fetish and I refuse to treat it like one.
I will, however, beat your ass red and put you in predicament bondage that leaves you begging.
In general, I am willing to try anything once, as long it isn't involve blood, scat, urine, adult babies/littles or significant risk of permanent harm. That doesn't mean if you are into those things don't contact me. I'm happy to help you get your rope fetish on while you play with diapers or what not on your own. Just don't expect me to join on in any of the above.
Messaging Me
Anyone is welcome to message me, for friendship, fun, or relationships. However if you send me a single line message, or a message that makes it obvious you never read my profile, you will not get a reply. I get that coming up with ways to introduce yourself can be hard sometimes (I HATE writing intro letters, and I write for a living!) so here are a few suggestions/ideas:
- Tell me about your favorite geeky thing, be it a movie, webcomic, video game, tv show, book, comic book, or technobabble about computer codes.
- Let me know what your favorite bondage device is and why--rope or cuffs? metal or leather? tape maybe?
- Talk feminism, intersectionality or social justice with me. Warning: you get a strike for equating feminism and/or femdom with female supremacy
- What do you think about the libertarian movement?
- Are you on fetlife? Why or why not?
- What do you know about polyamory? Have you ever been in a poly relationship? What questions do you have about polyamory?
- Anything else you think might interest me.
I prefer you don't use a title unless we are in a relationship, if you need to use a title "Miss" or Ma'am" are preferred.
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