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Submissive Couple, 28, Philadelphia, Massachusetts
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Female Dominant, 25, Houston, Texas
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About bananafishiex
I realize this is the place for disclosing my fetishes and desires, but I'm not a fan of answering the question "what are you into?", because disclosing my fetishes takes away their power. I want X and Y not because I asked for it, but because my partner gets off on X and Y. I prefer to be seduced into or psychologically "forced" into engaging in my fantasies.
That said, I recognize it's helpful to others to have some idea of my proclivities. What ultimately satisfies me is the sexual satisfaction of my partner through my submission in whatever form they get their satisfaction.
Do I have hard limits? Sure I do - see my profile picks. But it has happened before that what I thought was a hard limit has turned into one of my fetishes, especially when introduced to it at the hands of the right partner with the right attitude.
If that's not enough to go on, allow me to give you some background.
I started playing around several years ago with Internet porn, like just about every other red-blooded male. At first, I just looked at beautiful sexy women - there are certainly plenty out there. Gradually, though, I started to desire new sexual highs and started indulging various fetishes and fantasies that developed. Somewhere along the way, I developed (or perhaps discovered is a better word) a foot fetish, and indulging in that led to some submissive fantasies.
In my explorations, I discovered places where I played around with online Mistresses (e.g., chat boards, Second Life, Yahoo Messenger). I discovered my submissive streak is very strong, and was drawn deeper and deeper, engaging in increasingly submissive fantasies - a woman's sexual arousal and satisfaction from dominating me is the most exquisitely exciting thing imaginable. And I do believe I provide ample satisfaction in return. :-)
I have kept my activities cordoned off from real life in the relative "safety" of essentially anonymous online interactions - my kink partners and I have not known each other in real life - we have played online. That does not mean I never got to know my partners, just that they were online and not real life partners. I find that to be highly arousing - the anonymity allows me to indulge in fantasies in which I would be afraid to engage in real life, and seems to increase their power.
I'm still comfortable in the cloak of that anonymity, but also starting to wonder if I should tear down the wall. Perhaps my fetishes aren't merely a toy to be pulled out when I want and put back in their box for real life. I still harbor a worry, however, that engaging in my fantasies in real life might prove unsatisfying.
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