azfreak3 on Collarspace

6/19/2007 4:51:34 AM

Morning sluts,

Time to put ideas onto paper...er cyber screen...regarding my recent thoughts and/or concerns about dominating a female.   Has been difficut for me to really visualize domming a woman...my experience with women has been very recent. and although i am familiar with all the parts being brought to the table; and do certainly have a dominant side...has been a tough picture for me to paint in my mind. But why should this journey be any different from any of my others?

Ahh, that is the key question. It is different. Extremely different. In my mind, dominating someone bears a tremendous responsibility.  For me I have chosen to grasp the concept, by equating domming a woman with owning a pet.

However, let me quickly interject that you should be so lucky as to be one of my pets (at least the four legged variety-can not speak to the two legged version...yet). I take my role as pet owner very seriously, and continually do everything in my power to keep them safe, happy, fulfilled, and disciplined.
I do this for two reasons. One: because they bring me so much joy. Plain and simple, selfish reason. Nothing like the adoration and love that you receive from a happy pet. However, two: is that they are helpless creatures that need to be taken care of. I feel that it's my duty to take the best care of them as I am able.

This being said, I am not a perfect owner. But this is not for lack of trying or doing the proper research. We are all flawed beings. My actions are always done with the best of intentions; and I think that is all we can ask of ourselves.

So, I've decided that this pet or puppy metaphor is the best way for me to sort of wrap my head around this concept of dominating; and to understand why this would be an appealing prospect for me.

I think about the warm feelings that are stirred by my pets excitement to see me, and need to be close, and willingness to please. And I revel in the joy that brings to me.

That is the plan now for my future sub, my c*nt to be. A slow process that begins with soft nuturing and pleasure. Training and growth being done in short spurts; fun filled spurts, that encourage my new pet, and leave her wanting more of the fun filled pleasures that her owner bestows upon her. She will want to be near me and will want more of the yummy treats that her owner provides.
Ultimately, she will do things that she would normally be hesitant to do, because she trusts me, she loves the treats, and she wants to please me.

Our first time together physically, would be very similar to puppies first day at the new house. She will be vunerable, nervous, scared, and restricted. She will await my arrival: alone, dressed in bra and panties, and blindfolded, sitting. I will enter quietly, stand close, and pull my pets head to my busom. I will gently stroke her hair as a craddle her head.

I will lay my pet down and begin lightly, slowly running my hands along her neck, shoulders, arms, legs...intentionally avoiding the breasts and groin. Occasionally, i will whisper in my pets ear how wonderful she feels and tell her how beautiful she is. I will assure her that i am there to take care of her and that I would never harm her.
Once my new pet was feeling quite good, i would instruct her to remove her bra. Beginning by lightly caressing her breasts...suddenly i will grab a deep handful of each breast...squeezing firmly for a few seconds and then releasing.   squeeze and release, increasing intensity with each grab.

all the while, my knee is inching towards the warmness building in her crotch. pushing her thighs apart with my knee..edging it closer....

mmmmmm....to be continued, my pet.