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Male Dominant, 24, Ypsilanti, Michigan
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Male Submissive, 21, Jacksonville, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 26
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About AthleticDom4Life
First things first! Why is it so hard for someone to realize that in bdsm it is a relationship? You can have control and the lifestyle as a day to day and outside the bedroom, but it's more than sex. It's the dance with your partner(s) and how you flow together. Going out to eat together, going to the gym, laughing, flirting, wrestling and just enjoying being with the other person. Do you disagree? I am me. I am naturally Dominant and it's not an act I try to put on, it's just me. I am me every day and I want her to be her and have our energy of sub and Dom mix together in our every day life. I want a girl who can join me in my every day life. My vanilla world if you will. It's full of activities such as hiking, bowling, pool, traveling and other activities. I want to be able to bring her to family events and have no one know. I am 31 and have been in the lifestyle for 13 years. I want to find a girl who I could mold and teach. I enjoy teaching and sharing. I don't drink/smoke/drugs, but not against you drinking, but smoking and drugs are a hard limit of mine. Let's start with talking and go from there. I should also add if you are going to say something then follow through with what you say |
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I just put up a new picture. What do you all think of it? please message me with your response! |
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Saw VI is definitely worth seeing. |
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Congratulations to President Obama with a well deserved Nobel Peace Prize win...
Wait what did he do to win it? WAIT!! what has he done in general. Wait.... oh Sh*t America we f*cked up. oh well. 3.5 more years and hopefully we can fix it. |
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Why is it impossible to find a girl who is obedient and will follow through with what she says?
Sincere question. |
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I would like to find a girl who is obsessed with cock. One that really enjoys it in her. whether it's her hand, mouth, pussy or ass. |
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"I'd like to check you for ticks" |
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I bowl regularly. One night at bowling one of my buddies was like Arnold told me this story how he was fucking this girl once and she was like choke me. Arnold said what. She said choke me. She grabbed his hands and put them around her throat and Arnold was like I thought I was going to kill her.
My thought was. #1 I'd like to meet her. #2 he should have slapped her face after he was choking her :) #3 these fools have no clue what they are talking about |
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Just a word of advice...
Never take a laxative and a sleeping pill in the same night.
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Dirty babe you see these shackles baby i'm your slave.
I'll let you whip me if i mis-behave. Its just that no one makes me feel this way |
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Joey Chestnut is still the Nathan's Coney Island Hot Dog Eating Champion with a new record of 68 dogs in 10 minutes.
Proud to be an American more than ever. The Yellow Mustard Belt is staying home!!! |
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Do you want to take a ride on my disco stick? ? |
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Just got done mowing the lawn for 2+ hours. My hands feel like I have a vibrator in each one.
anyone wanna test them out? lol |
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so close to leaving here again... can anyone change my mind? |
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shush girl, shut your lips. Do the helen keller and talk with your hips. |
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2 hands are way better than 1. (has nothing to do with sex) |
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Happy Mother's Day to everyone who is a mom
and Happy 31st birthday to me :)
What a gift I was to my mom. lol :) |
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intelligent conversations. That's a new limit. Whereas I should say lack of the ability of one is a new limit. I need a girl with brains, that's the most stimulating submissive :) |
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"booty is booty"
Burger Kings sponge bob kids happy meal :) |
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If there is a slave in this place with a personality message me :) |
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Loving the song "Second Chance" by ShineDown
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discipline and structure.
The lifestyle is built on both of these. If that is the case why is there a population here who smoke, use drugs, over drink and over eat?
If one can't create structure and discipline in their own life, how can they expect to do the same in another's life?
If you are a heavy smoker, use drugs and obese if you ask me you don't have control of your life. How can you control another?
Please feel free to respond regarding this. |
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Collaring rant-
I see this lifestyle deeper than marriage. There is more at risk. You are putting your trust in another's hand. Whether it's a Dominant putting their trust in their subs hands or vice versa. It's trust.
People will date for months, years even a decade before getting married. In the lifestyle or at least on here, people become collared in weeks or a few months.
I see a collar around a girl's neck to have more meaning than a ring on the finger.
Please share your thoughts on this! |
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Why is it only the lesbians on this site that are attractive? |
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deadline!!! 1/1/08 then I'll be MIA for quite some time.
for info? find me on aim or yahoo. echidapus |
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If you are an Al Gore fan, PLEASE do NOT message me :) I am not interested in you |
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best thing about this site? Tetris :) |
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I am almost on my way to vanilla. ty collarme |
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Am I the only one here who is actually looking for something real. I mean a relationship. something long term. and did I mention REAL!! |
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when will I learn? Will I ever learn? well I'm still here so most likely. NOPE :( |
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the longer I am on this site the more jaded of the lifestyle I feel I am becoming. that sucks!!! |
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I keep learning more and more about people here the more I filter through, hopefully the real one will show up soon. One thing I know is that I'm difficult to serve. What do I mean? I have high expectations of myself and my girl. It's a challenge with a reward that is priceless. |
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ok. I went to a gay pride event this past weekend. I learned something. Do not bring your dog to a gay pride event and stand near the transgendered table in the rain. My dog got hit on!! |
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Well I am going to be more specific. I tend to be fairly intense more times then not. The lifestye is an intense lifestyle so it is all good. Also I like to call you girl. to one day be my girl. good girl. bad girl. cute girl. etc. I like the word girl.
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I just learned something today. Not to tell vanilla friends what I'm into else you lose a friendship!!. that sucks |
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