i am a submissive in Central California. i am collared to the most wonderful Sir. i am also a Psychology student in the last year of my Bacholors degree and heading for my Master's. my goal is to specialize within the BDSM community as a need for BDSM psychologists is important. W/we have our own set of issues at times that need talked about.

In doing this i also need to go outside of my realm of experience within the community and understand all aspects. So i am really interested in a few things.

What i want to do is initiate conversations that revolve around questions. This does not go anywhere but me. i will i guess update questions in the little journel thing that hits the top of my page, and if any desire to comment please send me an email

The frist question would be "What do you think being submissive is and how did you frist figure out that you might be?"

Also would love to hear from Domaints also..."what do You think a submissive is?"

The ts at the end of aspen is my initials and does not intone any other meaning. *L* Got some interesting questions about that one *L*

i also would just be interested in talking with those that are serious within the lifestyle.


Thanks for all who will be willing to talk.