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About ASir4You
Someone asked me this queston. After looking at how I replied to the question I thought it would suffice as my "about you" info.
"Tell me about your bdsm experience, and what you really enjoy...."
Ha, I could write a book. this will have to be the short version. I was born dominant. I have a very vivid experience with a cute little girl when I was a cute little boy that, when I look back on it, clearly explains why I know I was born dominant. There are a couple of other early childhood memories that explain my place on the D/s spectrum.
That being said, I openly and fully started to explore D/s and bdsm when I was just past the age of 40. I have been in 4 long(ish) term D/s relationships, the first of which was 100% organic. I have experienced a lot and am clear about what I enjoy and need.
I love to be in control. My saving grace is I am not selfish. If I am with a submissive who craves to serve then I am happy to push her to her ultimate purpose. Her service only serves to fill my giving cup. I am much more inclined to reward/acknowledgement/praise than punishment, but understand that punishment can serve the structure of D/s. My kinks are fairly well documented with my D/s - bdsm fetish list.
Now, onto what I love.....life, live music, laughter, determination, forgiveness, humility, nice smells, cooking at home, reading, hiking, bowling, watching sports on TV, kissing, cuddling, friends, puppy dog breath, marks on a sexy ass, massage, crushing a poker game, live music (need saying again), and a beautiful smile. |
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Male Dominant, 26, kent, Ohio
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Male Submissive, 34, portland, Oregon
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Female Dominant, 38, Woodland Hills, California
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Male Switch, 47, San Francisco, California
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Male Dominant, 34, Los Angeles, California
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Male Submissive, 22, BC
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Female Submissive, 22, eugene, Oregon
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Female Submissive, 18
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Male Dominant, 53, Taichung
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Male Submissive, 30, greensboro, North Carolina
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Male Switch, 40, B C
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Female Submissive, 24, Birmingham
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