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Pan Male Switch, 24,  Yuma, Arizona
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asieraws - Yuma, Arizona

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Bi switch who is trying to explore his sexuality and this lifestyle as best he can in a society which doesn't understand it and fears it. I recently collared a new submissive and am hoping she works out but we are going through some very big initial growing pains. I will be attending the Folsom Street Fair this year and am looking forward to it greatly. I have a lot of interests outside BDSM but the biggest of which right now would be golf, reading, and Netflix. Please send me a message if for nothing else, just to chat. There are not many people in my area to talk to about this lifestyle and give tips or share stories so I'd like to feel connected to the lifestyle in some way. Below I guess it my Treatise on the lifestyle and my overarching philosophy I guess. The relationship between a DOMME and a SUB is one that I believe many people misunderstand at an incredibly fundamental level. While most people see is as debasement or ridicule, and many have even gone as far to call it violent, these are either complete misinterpretations or judgments made from witnessing bad relationships. In my mind the DOMME-SUB relationship is one of the most loving and caring ways for two people in this world to interact. There must absolutely be true affection; feeling and trust between these two or the entire act becomes nothing more than a shallow show, a shell of what it is truly meant to be. The SUB entrusts all that she is to her DOMME, not just her control, power or actions, but her life, her love, her emotions, her feelings, her hopes and dreams, everything that encompasses her, mind, body and soul. And that is one if the fullest most loving relationships I can imagine, one in which the responsibilities should not be taken lightly. In that same regard I am beginning to understand the enjoyment of what has traditionally been referred to as pain. I have begun to describe it in a way that all physical sensation in the body really stems from the same sensation. The discrepancies between pain and pleasure, good and bad sensation is one that the human mind develops based on the input from external forces in society which tell a person that certain stimuli are bad. While in some cases these are truly important distinctions to keep people safe from harm they have been so aggrandized that most people today see any type of physical discomfort or pain as intrinsically bad. I believe that if one is able to truly look into oneself when experiencing pain they are able to turn those physical stimuli into one that is much less negative if not enjoyable. I boil it down to that all stimuli is simply physical sensation on one level or another and if one can accept the pain as their own they can truly begin to blur the distinctions between pain and pleasure.

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 asieraws

 Male Switch

 Yuma 

 Arizona

 5' 6"

 145 lbs

 24

 Pan

 Caucasian

 02/09/11

 06/14/13

 Lives For:

 Spanking

 Loves:

 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Dancing

 Anal Play

 Blindfolds

 Bondage

 Canes and Crops

 Corsets

 Genital Punishment

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Vibrators

 Whips

 Likes:

 Clubbing

 Gambling

 Weightlifting (Expert)

 Gags (Beginner)

 Orgasm Denial

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Suspension (Beginner)

 Wax play (Beginner)

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Journal Entries:
6/7/2013 2:08:03 PM
After a bit of a hiatus I am back. Much more comfortable in my role as a bi switch. Everyday is different and a new adventure. Hoping to just meet some cool people to chat with now. Maybe more later if you're close enough

12/26/2012 11:55:43 PM

Back in Yuma and back on the market


10/9/2012 6:41:23 PM
Most likely going to be on the market again in SoCal by the weekend. Let me know who wants to destroy me

8/12/2012 5:59:15 PM

Had a lot of fun at Fetish Heat last night. Thanks so much to everyone I met for showing me such a good time, especially my time on the rack ;)


8/9/2012 10:53:04 PM
Two days from now at this time I'll be at fetish heat in Scottsdale!!! I can't wait. Hope to see you all there ;)

7/28/2012 4:48:12 PM
Just bought my ticket to the Fetish Heat party in Scottsdale. Let me know if you'll be going as well

7/23/2012 8:56:33 PM

New photos! Check out my new look ;)


3/18/2012 8:46:57 AM

Advice needed: I recently starting shaving in and around my ass so as to be clean and presentable, but standing in the shower with a razor for 20 minutes every week trying to reach places I can barely reach, praying that I don't nick something is tedious. So, does anyone know a better way to clean up down there? I would greatly appreciate it. If the advice is helpful enough I'll probably show it off in a video entry >;) 


2/18/2012 11:41:55 PM

This absolutely made my day :D

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tXFwaK5xbEI&feature=related


2/12/2012 10:55:54 PM

Using my new plug for extended wear for the first time...

Thank you CADom ;)


2/8/2012 11:51:09 PM

on cam4.com right now as switchtony...

come by if u wanna see me use a butt plug for the first time...


1/30/2012 8:38:28 AM

Got to Dom to different and wonderful camsubs last night; a man and a woman. Truly a lot of fun


1/14/2012 7:23:42 PM

Got a massage today, always makes me smile to think how socially acceptable it is to basically be in a CFNM scene with them poking prodding and rubbing you while you simply lay there obediently...

But when I do it with someone wearing latex or rubber, I'm a freak. lol


1/1/2012 8:10:43 PM

i love wearing nothing but a jock... leaves my ass so exceptionally exposed >;)


1/1/2012 12:51:35 AM

Two things: 1: i was in NYC tonight for new years and was frankly, unimpressed... sry...

2: I'm looking into getting my first butt plug, so any advice in that regard would be more than helpful. Thank you


12/29/2011 12:03:33 PM

6/30/2011 12:08:05 AM

not sure if i should just delete the account and move on...


3/1/2011 4:17:08 PM

its lookin like im back on the market...


3/1/2011 4:22:07 AM

I have not heard from my Princess in over a week now and her account has been deleted, Anyone have any advice for a confused sub...


2/10/2011 2:00:52 AM

so happy to be here and the love iv been shown already


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