First I should say that I am a very loving and caring
dominant. I am not looking for a slave, rather, I am looking for a
submissive lover. I want a 24/7 power exchange but the level of
submission I expect will change depending on the circumstances. I fully
want my pet -a term I consider very loving yet dominating- to fulfill her
desires and dreams and to be her own person in many ways. If I wanted
someone to put on hold who they are as a person for me, I would be looking for
a slave. In short I want a submissive
lover, someone to have more than a D/s connection with.
Snowboarding is my sport of choice, and probably my only
sport. It’s a great love of mine. This past year I have been to Vermont,
Salt Lake City, Quebec
City and Whistler and had a great time. I also like metalworking and am working on a few of my own toy designs
which I’ll post about for those that are interested. This is why I chose the name I did.
I will not degrade my pet into thinking she is worth less
than she really is, nor do I wish to. Slut is as far as I will go, and even than, it is used when she is
particularly horny, for example. Everything she does for me is because she is my pet and it pleases me,
not because it demonstrates she is of less value.
For those that have read this far, the fun stuff. I have been described by close lifestyle
friends as a sweetie with a deliciously twisted evil side. And indeed I am twisted. I have very few limits and the limits that
are there are mainly for health, safety and moral reasons. I am mainly interested in the
Dominant/submissive lifestyle dynamic, that is my main turn on. I love my pet to be kneeling close to me with
her head on my lap or in contact with me in some other way, content in her
place as my pet, obedient and submissive and being petted by me. Beyond my main like of D/s most other things
are only of moderate importance when compared to D/s in itself. I do however have a few things I particularly
enjoy. I like to tease and deny
orgasm. Her pleasure belongs to me and I
can choose to give it or take it away as I please. This will never be used as a punishment
because I tease and deny because I want to and because I enjoy it, not because
she has been bad or displeased me (and yes, I do punish for bad behavior). I also like using restraints, mostly
locking. My pet will sometimes spend
extended periods in bondage both because I enjoy it and to reinforce that she
belongs to me and is under my control. I
am also a bit of a sadist, I inflict pain for my pleasure, be it from a
flogger, cane, pins, clamps and all other sorts of interesting devices. For everything else you can take a look at my
interests list or talk to me about them.
I do not have a torrent of submissives I get involved with
but I do have my fair share of experience. If you want someone with the wisdom of someone 10+ years your senior and
is, indeed, 10+ years your senior, I am not really your type. Not that I am not wise beyond my years
(maybe), I simply don’t know everything about you at a glace (does anyone
really? Or do they just say ambiguous slogans that many submissives relate to,
much like a fortune teller?)
And what do I want in a pet? If she is young she must be fairly mature for her age. She must be fairly intelligent and not just
in areas of D&S. This should involve
at least a start in some post-secondary education. Other than that, I’m just looking for plain
old compatibility.
I have made an effort to make my profile reasonably
descriptive of me. There are a lot of
creep dominants around here and a lot of submissives beaten down by their
relentless expressions of their inability to be a normal human being. For that reason I won’t contact many
submissives. Also I am looking for a
real life relationship. I fully expect
to talk on the phone a fair bit as well as meet in fairly short order.
If you think I might be someone you’re interested in, send
me a message and we’ll chat over MSN, email, phone. As much as I try to describe myself above I’m
only scratching the surface of who I am. The only real way two people can get to know each other is by
interacting with each other. Something a
lot of people fail to realize, as they search through profiles, compare limits
lists and move on.
I am a private person and have my reasons for not posting a public
picture. I however will send a picture
if you would like.
